I may get married soon. I have never dated or had any serious relationship with a girl. So I am feeling a bit anxious as I am to start a relationship soon. I would like to know how to make her happy and be the ideal partner??
2006-10-20 23:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple. Love her and show it. NEVER cheat. Remember birthdays and anniversaries. Give her gifts once in a while; they don't have to be expensive, just expressive of your appreciation and love for her. Stand up for her. Be present, be there for her, especially when she needs you.
Isn't that simple enough? I wonder why some men can't get this.
2006-10-20 23:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very honest about how you feel towards your partner. Prove to her not only in words but more so in actions how much you love her and how important she really is to you. Build communication and problem solving skills inside your relationship to secure it's health and growth. Just keep doing the right things for her and always consider her feelings and opinions. Never let i love you's go unsaid.
2006-10-20 23:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Corin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if you plan on getting married soon - and you don't have a partner how to you expect to get married soon. Just be yourself and enjoy your life and the right woman will come along
2006-10-20 23:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hanky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and do 'talking' a lot more than ;doing' as that is how one should get closer in someone's esp your loved one's heart. Be nice to her and listen to her more often. Find what interests her the most and be 'her-centered' rather than 'you-centered'. Be there when she cooks food in the kitchen, be there when she dries clothes on hangs, be there when she shops outside in the market etc. Keep giving her calls when you are away at work. Leave her alone when she is 'off' to buy her privies.
2006-10-21 03:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by ECQC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and remember that "Little things mean a lot." Be considerate , write her small notes of concern, admire her hairstyle sincerely, tell her how delicious the dish that she cooked, say thank you, greet her good morning etc., open the door for her, help her across the street,,..there are countless little ways to express concern. Women are usually "touched" by these simple displays of affection. Good luck.
2006-10-21 01:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her gently, politely and full affection. Both of you try to understand each other. Compromise on invidual habbits, Take care of each other's emotions and AT THE TOP time will teach all needed things. But sicerity is the base line.
2006-10-20 23:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The expectations of all women can be summed up in this lyric of the great poet Ghalib: " Hazaron qwahishen aisi ke har qwahish pe dum nikle, Bahot nikle mere armaan .. phir bhi kam nikle ".
2006-10-21 00:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to do any thin special.just try to talk to her in a friendly way and try to ask her her preferences,and try to struck a balance.The most important thing is to respect her family members and relatives.that will do.No body on earth can fulfil the expectations of a woman unless she is very genuine and know the ground realities of life.
2006-10-20 23:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't rush into marriage if u r not sure how to please your partner thats the essence of dating coz u learn bout each other, make mistakes n correct them and lots of other things so when u get married it less harder coz u guys know n understand each other better that is if you r rite for each other. but its important that no matter what, u shud try to be yourself and also try to keep your partner happy.
2006-10-20 23:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by sleek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to keep doing what your doing and every thing else will follow as it has always done, relax be yourself and let nature take it's course.
I wish you both the best for your future together.
2006-10-20 23:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by mummapink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋