Me and my family have a great relationship with each other but, when it comes to friends and boyfriends the results are quite disappointing; we don't seem to have much in common and there is no intimacy after all. What could be wrong? Is it me, is it them? Do I ask too much?
2006-10-20 22:56:45 · 23 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 23 years old.
2006-10-20 23:33:44 · update #1
There is someone out there for you, it's just a matter of crossing paths. Sometimes this can take a while though. You will know when you find the right person, there will be a connection between you that cannot be broken. Everything will fall in to place.
I know myself, I was looking for the right person for a while. I thought I would be alone for good, and then without expecting anything, we found each other. Best of Luck to you..
2006-10-20 23:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never ask too much in such an important issue in your life. Like someone else say you need to lighten up. Take your time. Intimacy is not easy to come by for many people and sadly some never find it. I have friends who have married very late in life...very late...The circumstances and the right person needed to be in place for cupid to do his work. Be happy! Enjoy your family! Go to recreational, religious, school & neighborhood activities and be natural. Mr. Right will come along. BTW you didn't say your age...
2006-10-20 23:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by latin-solomon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For any balanced and long-lasting relationship what u need is to know and understand the realationship.
Test it at different times when it really needs to be tested.
Give it time, act maturely and if you feel that you are asking too much than the reason that I can guess sitting here is that you give too much and then expect the same in return.Listen dear!!!
Humans all are of different nature so no one can be like you.
Always hope the best and expect everything!
2006-10-20 23:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying - you just haven't met the right person/people yet. We don't all get on with everyone so just give it more time. If you find you don't have things in common with boyfriends then why not go somewhere that's more of a hobby and then everyone you meet there will have something in common with you. Just think of what you like doing and see if there's some sort of club....
2006-10-20 23:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you're looking for what you really want. It sounds dumb but many people train themselves to seek out a certain type of person despite the fact that they don't really mesh with them. Like the girls who like "bad boys" then complain about why they're always getting treated bad or cheated on. Forget what your "ideals" are and just think about qualities in men that make you happy. Short term and long term. If a type of car shows up on your list you're way off track, so make sure your criteria is relevant to a lasting relationship. Hope this helped, good luck.
2006-10-20 23:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since TV, it is difficult to establish relationships, because we tend to think that a half hour (22 minutes with commercials) is sufficient to do this.
Relationships take time. It's possible that you rush the proceedings, jumping ahead of the stages it takes to build good relathionships.
With friends and boyfriends, take your time. Go slow. Be yourself, be nice. and give others the benefit of the doublt, (without letting them take advantage of you) whenever possible. You willl see a decided change in how well your relationships turn out.
Good luck!
2006-10-20 23:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it relies upon on the ladies human beings, i will ask a similar question approximately a number of guys i've got met in my life. possibly that's the circumstances. issues have replaced, society is working at a speedier p.c.. and human beings take much less time attending to understand one yet another earlier leaping into something, which isn't a stable ingredient.
2016-10-15 06:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too close to your family and don't give romantic relationships in your life the time and attention that they need to grow. Hopefully you are gradually introducing men in your life to your close-knit family. If you bombard a guy with your family too much and too soon it could be really intimidating for him and scare him off.
2006-10-20 23:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met the right people yet! We are all unique so maybe you just don't have a lot in common with the people that you have been trying to establish relationships with.
2006-10-20 23:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Yaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its because you are looking for the same kind of relationship that you are accustomed to , like your family relationship which is good and don't worry about your early failure with bf's and friends because if you just waait and be patients the right people will come along and that will be good! so just wait and look around they are everywhere!
2006-10-20 23:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋