he is trying to win my heart again but i dont trust him bcoz i found out in his messenger he is talking to other girls again...i dont know what to do...pls.help!
2006-10-20 21:58:15 · 26 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's obvious whatever split you up has never been resolved. If not what basis do you have to restart a relationship? You deserve better.
2006-10-20 22:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by E15 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As every knowledgeable person will tell you if you don't trust him there is no foundation for accepting him back .Why are you spying on what he does just forget all about him find someone new who is honest loyal faithfull trustworthy one bad mistake can be forgiven but as you chose to keep checking up on him you cant trust him one bit so move on NOW .What i suggest to most is write down the general qualities you want in a man then add what i said above DONT SETTLE FOR LESS GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-20 22:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your past behind you, if you can emotionally handle that. Let your EX be an EX ... if the trust factor is lost, you can't have it all back ... there will always be a nagging feeling at the back of your mind ... believe me, I'm talking from my own experience :-) Try to meet new people - no online stuff ... REAL people do help ... Good luck to you :-)
2006-10-20 22:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are based on trust. men are creatures of habbit.
if he cheated on you and you take him back that is an all season pass to infidealty, and guess what the more he does it, the easier it gets. he may try once or twice to win you back after that you'll be the fool that know he's cheating and can't say no.
just think of all the stds out there. if he is out already keep him out. if you have kids with him he can see them, but there is a diffrance between him being thier father and your husband.
good luck
2006-10-20 22:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by diablito69us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never... don't be back again, it's clear that u had divorced before because of a reason like these messages he is still recieving now. be strong even if u r still in love with him, trust ur feeling , accept him back again when u feel u really trust him.
2006-10-20 22:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by pepo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost your heart when he was talking to other girls and as you say "again". What to do? Tell him he is irresponsible and not ready for a cimmitted relationship and find yourself someone who will treat you respectfully and let him be on his way with his games. 1 sure thing, he'll do it again and youll be in the same situation.
2006-10-20 23:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think life has given u another opportunity to think over a decision you took in your past so now it is upto you to decide whether you took the right decision or u need to give ur ex-husband another chance....
if you are suspicious about anything then trust your instincts and listen to your inner voice......u will surely get the best that you deserve! so be happy and don't feel guilty about any decision u take....may God help you choose the right path!
2006-10-20 22:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason, tell him it didnt work the first time and it isnt going to work the 2nd. If you dont trust him, there is a reason for it.
2006-10-20 22:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u can't trust him again then it's just better that u move on with your life and find someone u can trust.
2006-10-20 22:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason. Think back to what your marriage was like, and ask yourself if you need another helping of the same.
2006-10-20 22:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋