I've really let this person get under my skin, which I don't no how that happened, and they are starting to affect my happiness - is there anything I can do?
2006-10-20 21:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This ambivalent feeling of loving & not liking someone happens all the time in all relationships. Sometimes you can love a person even though you don't like them. But if something is affecting your happiness, try to talk about it with that person involved. If he/she is not willing to listen & be reasonable about it, then ask yourself if this is worth fighting for. Give it some time.
Nobody can take away your pain, so don't let anybody take away your happiness. Goodluck !!! :-)
2006-10-20 22:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who the person is (family etc) and the reason this has happened,on the other hand are you over reacting ? It may be that you have changed or have a different outlook on things lately,before you do any thind you may regret think it through cause it might blowover.
2006-10-21 06:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by sue m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it off completely, the thing that is most insulting is the world is the "act" that some shows they care........let it go and let it go for good. The only time I have loved someone and hated them at the same time is when I really missed their intimacy. Other than that, when I have made up my mind....poof...yer done.
2006-10-20 22:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this person then be open and honest. Tell them what they do that gets under your skin and if they don't stop,then end the friendship/relationship!
2006-10-20 22:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - get them out from under your skin again.
Don't spend time with them, or at least limit the time you spend with them.
If they are making you unhappy, they have no place in your life.
2006-10-20 22:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this person about it & if he/she values your happiness they will stop, if not then they are not worth giving another thought.
However whatever the outcome, be sure not to regret later.
2006-10-20 22:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by atts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love and care about them but keep your distance because it is not worth being miserable. Also try talking to them about it.
2006-10-20 21:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by sjp_amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO decide ONE way to go or ONE boat to sail. There is no hard and fast rule, its your own choice and decision depending on your own priorities, their dealing and behavor towards you.
2006-10-20 22:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to prison. happens all the time there. you just get used to it, after all, you put yourself there, Skippy.
2006-10-20 22:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋