I love a man He's the one,there's no doubt about that.He wants to marry me and I'm so scared of marriage.I was actually so overwhelmed I almost freaked out
I'm 10 weeks pregnant.He wants the baby.I'm confused. I love children but I feel that I lack that maternal instinct
He knows what he wants. I'm acting immaturely in response .What the heck,I'm a 27 year old woman
2006-10-20 21:44:12 · 11 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to take a decision to settle down in life. You will have more responsibilities. Prepare your mind. Imagine a small baby who loves you, expecting all from you. God created one in you when many people cannot have one. The baby wants to see the world, you, and your husband. The entire world belongs to you, your baby, and your husband.
2006-10-20 21:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by R S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol easy girl calm down, step back and take a couple of deep breaths.
some womens maternal instinct isn't there in the begining, but as the baby grows so will the power to be a mother.
as far as marriage most people are scared.
its the fear of the unknown, and all u have to go by is other peoples marriage and if u know couples that have had problems then u will be scared.
i like this saying:
Give me the ability to accept the things i can't change,
the strenth to change the things i can
and the knowledge to know the difference
think about it and good luck mommy :)
2006-10-20 21:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. Dealing with being pregnant, and now having to decide on marrieage can be a bit overwhelming. Step back. Take a deep breath and take your time. You probably are not lacking maternal instincts as much as it may be that you just have a lot to deal with and you haven't had the luxury of absorbing the fact that you are carrying within your womb a new life... that you helped to create. Give yourself time and stop beating yourself up about it.
2006-10-20 21:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Speaking_Up 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you... you are just scared. I was lacking in maternal instinct until the day we left the hospital with our daughter. My husband was so excited and i was.... well i was miserable the whole time i was pregnant. It all changed when we drove home with her. I felt afraid that something would happen to her or we would get in a wreck... that is when it dawned on me that I had a maternal instinct... It will happen for you to
2006-10-20 21:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by DamentiaC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AMJ, if u really weren't a caring person would you be at all concerned? You're asking the question aren't you? What does that mean?
Love yourself, maybe be prepared for some post partum depression as you will ob obsessed with the baby and how to care. Does that run in your family?
Look for successful parenting models in your family or friends and copy them. You're bound to be a success. We're all with you and your family to be. Good luck honey!!!
2006-10-20 22:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of women having panic attacks while being pregnant. Maybe that's part of, or exactly what's going on. Once you have your child, you'll probably feel better. You might want to do some research on anxiety and see if that's what you might be going through.
2006-10-20 21:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess..you are just being panic..
just be cool and calm...
i believe that maternal instinct will come along =) and though, you could learn to take care of a baby..
so, better than panic you could do these stuffs..prepare the wedding n learn to be a mom..=) ask your mom or other mother or councellors or may be doctors..=)
you can do it..be happy =)
2006-10-20 21:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by funneh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that maternal instinct, why are you pregnant?
2006-10-20 21:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being normal
2006-10-20 21:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋