i have been with him for 9yrs on and off, we have tried over and over but it just doesnt work out. I have 2 children from him and they adore him. So i always try over and over. But this last time was just out of control He spends so much time with this dude everyweekend ...i always thought he might be.. but no......but he spends everyweekend with him drinking and he has cheated with a married woman and had 2 children with her and went back and forth. Yes, im a fool. but never the less i would have never thought he was gay. But today i found this email to that same guy. stating keep that booti tight for me for when i smash it later... bitxxxxx! what the hell that is crazy. He must be gay...but then why does he keep begging me back to work it out im so confused?
2006-10-20 21:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by jane do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whether he's gay or not isn't really relevant. He's obviously not a good person to have around anyway if he goes back and forth to someone else (male or female). He might be a good dad but it's not doing your kids any favours staying with him. You can still have a decent relationship with eachother as friends and parents but he sounds like a lost cause for anything more. You and your kids deserve someone who's willing to commit. Incidentally, that e-mail sounds pretty suspect - I'd be getting the hell out of there.
2006-10-20 21:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a jokey message between the two of them, but however you could do better than him, if hes cheated before you will always be wondering whether he will again, you need to work out whether you can ever trust him. An dont just stay with him for the kids they'l be much happier when your happier even if that is away from they're father....
2006-10-20 21:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Gay dose he need to stand on a stack of bibles for you to believe it.For god's sake wake up,the sky is falling it just hit you on the head,didn't you feel it. I did.
2006-10-20 21:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be bi curius. U need to talk to him about this, and confront your husbands male friend that u suspect. confront them both at the same time
2006-10-20 21:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and they say love can build bridges .. your husband is Bi sexual.. your not confused, your hurt.. he may very well love you, but he's a cheetah.. and a lot of men are .. one women will never be enough 4 them.. accept or reject.. the option is yours.. bummer eh ..
2006-10-20 21:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must like all that drama in your life, else why do you keep doing it.
2006-10-20 21:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's bisexual. Goes both ways?
2006-10-20 21:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋