I need help! I broke up with my new girlfriend Savannah, because I still have feelings for my ex-girlfriend Melissa, and a couple days later, on the phone, Melissa said "I'm sorry, to tell you this, but I have a new boyfriend!" But I can't trust her with anything anymore, because she's a liar, and I still can't stop loving her, what do you think I should do about this situation?
Thanks!
And, God Bless!
Also, I don't really believe that Melissa has a new boyfriend, and I think she is just saying that! What do you think about that?
And, if you tell me to get back with Savannah, there's a problem with that, the problem is me and my best friend kind of switch girlfriends, before the problem, with Melissa. So now my best friend is with Savannah, and I don't want to ruin their relationship!
What do you think I should?
Should I forget about both girls, or try to get Melissa back?
2006-10-20 21:31:24 · 12 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget them both and spend some time alone and really get to know your own heart!Otherwise you'll have girl after girl and no real relationship!
2006-10-20 21:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Drop back 50 yards and punt. If your girlfriend really isn't with another guy, then she'll come around. If you cause a scene when you see her, she'll be afraid to be around you. So be gentle and kind no matter what. Always smile sexy at her everytime you see her, even if she's with another guy. Make it all about undressing her with your eyes everytime you see her. Sometimes words ruin everything...but a look can work wonders. Be mysterious, and be cool. Don't whine or whimper or beg, that's degrading. Be cool and sexy...If that doesn't work, get yourself a new girlfriend. That always gets the old one interested quicker than you can say whoa. Then you can go off with your new girlfriend. Next thing you know, Melissa will be staning there staring really sexy at you, twirling her hair not saying a word, but undressing you with her eyes...do you get the picture? Play hard to get, or impossible to get.
2006-10-21 04:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are never impressed when a guy competes over her with her boyfriend. Never. so make sure this melissa girl really is faking b4 trying to win her back. or maybe it's time to move on. looks like they're both over u.
2006-10-21 04:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget Melissa. She sounds awful. I know it is hard to stop loving someone, but you do not have to put up with the way she acts. Do not let her treat you like that.
Look for someone else. You will eventually find someone who you can truly love and who will love you back.
Good luck.
2006-10-21 04:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to decide this. If I say forget all and take a new one, will you do it?. Can you say i will try one if that is not fruitful I remain single and I won't seek another?
2006-10-21 04:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Even if your X is lying about having a new boyfriend,the truth is she doesn't want you.I KNOW THAT SUCKS BUT IT HAPPENS TO EVERYONE AND MAKES YOU STRONGER.Spend some time single and see where your heart leads you you don't need a girlfriend all the time being single is a good experience too enjoy it.
2006-10-21 04:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET About them & move on with your life youre still young & youll find more better girls than them
2006-10-21 04:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by JOHANN L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make sure yourself about your girlfriend , if she has a boyfriend , you forgot and looking for a girlfriend .
2006-10-21 04:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by mdo72000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you someone else.Evidently nether of them want you any more move on.
2006-10-21 04:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget both the girls.try to get some other person.
2006-10-21 04:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋