2006-10-20 21:25:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
depends if you're friends for so long that he/she also trusts you with his/her deep secrets.
but no matter what, always leave a room for your deepest secrets to yourself.
2006-10-20 21:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how deep the secret is. You might be friends now but you never know down the road how that secret might affect your friendship. So be careful what secrets you do tell. Because that is why it is called, a secret. A secret, is meant to be kept hidden. Some secrets are best left alone. Why put that burden of the secret on your friend. And then expect them to keep the secret.
2006-10-21 04:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be very careful who you tell secrets to. You also have to consider how you'd feel if the secret got out. The thing is, a secret isn't a secret anymore if you tell someone. Someone I considered my best friend told something very personal about me, to just about every other friend she had. It's not to say that your friend will do the same, but you have to consider how you'll feel if she does, and then decide whether or not you want to tell.
2006-10-21 07:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the secret. Will it change your frienship? Make it better or worse? Would your friend change her/his mind about you when you tell the secret? Also to consider is the friend. If he/she is close friend then tell. I wish I told a lot of things to my friend but now he's leaving and I can only regeret that I did not tell him what he needed to know now/deserved to know
I hope I helped.
2006-10-21 09:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll know if he/she is your friend AFTER you tell him/her your deep secret!!!
But joking aside, if he/she is really your friend with whom you have already entrusted your not-so-dark secrets and who has been faithful and kept your trust, then i guess it would even be an honor for him/her to know your very deep and darkest secrets.
2006-10-21 04:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by yellahfellah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...depends what the 'secret' is...if it's something like, "i have a crush on this guy" or "i'm getting married" or simple stuff like that, i think u can tell them...but otherwise no...i don't tell best friend my deepest secret either. secrets are for ur self...
2006-10-21 04:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one should always keep to themselves their deep secrets. You never know if this person will be always be faithful to you. Friends do change at times!!!!!!!!!!!
I sure don't tell everything to anybody. Its nice to be a little bit mysterious. I have never told my husband everything of my past, it is private!!!!!!! I am still with him after 20 years of marriage.
You get more respect and just God needs to know. Believe me keep you deep secrets to yourself, unless you need to confess a crime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 05:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Never tell secrets, which are real secrects (you want that no one should know ) to any one. No question of leaking such things, which you feel are harmful to you, if those are out in the public. In other words BURRY those for ever.
2006-10-21 04:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend whatever you want. If you don't feel like telling them your secrets, don't...if you feel that they should know, then go ahead. But if you think they'll say it to other people, then no.
2006-10-21 04:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Saint Spaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful ur friend secretly pass ur deep secrets around....
2006-10-21 04:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋