who starts more fights in a relationship, men or women?????
2006-10-20 21:19:15 · 15 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't speak for other people's relationships but in my marriage, I'm the one who usually start an argument and it is because of a lack of effective listening and interpretation on my part on what my husband's really trying to communicate.
2006-10-20 21:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion..........well, hard to say really since i keep my nose out of other people biz. with my own friends they tell me sometimes, but they say they try to talk to the man. as it seems....most men are not into much talking. so they seem to retaliate and start arguing over what is being put on the table. and the girl argues back cause she just wants to be heard or acknowledged to what she is saying. well, i guess just my best friend i'm laying this basis on. most of my other g/f's don't tell much on whats going on. occasionally, as most people are going to naturally talk about whats going on if they had a fight or what ever. i have found though that in any relationship that one of my g/f talks about...i keep my opinion to myself and be a sounding board to bounce off of. cause sure as anything, the fight will be over and they will more then likely be in love again.
2006-10-21 04:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women! men are the ones who do the stupid things that cause the fights. sorry guys.
2006-10-21 06:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is both equal b/c girls find things to fight bout and boys will say the wrong thing and it will start a fight
2006-10-21 04:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by poetic_tradegy13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thnk both.if a woman starts to fight, then the man should be shut and must go away.if he argues with her it will sttart a big problem
2006-10-21 04:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by lock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the women. they are always Nagging!!! They dont know when to stop.
2006-10-21 05:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband starts more fights but i tend to keep going on once he has stoped
2006-10-21 16:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by nicole51304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I can say that we usually start them. It is not as if they are not justified (at times) but we do start more fights.
It is their fault though. LOL
2006-10-21 04:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men never no when to shut up so i say man
2006-10-21 04:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets face it we both start them equally. but if you ask a man they will tell you ladies do because they dont like admiting their flaws.
2006-10-21 04:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋