My husband is great, supportive etc.... but I don't think I love him anymore.
Is that normal or should I be worried?
2006-10-20 20:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends on what the person has been through. My x put me through a lot witch made me fall out of love with her. So for me with what i have gone thru if i was with someone that was great and good to me i would have to think long and hard about it. In other words what i am trying to say is there was something that made you love him. Look for that and see if you can find it again. You never know the next guy you fall in love with may not be as great and supportive as you say your husband is. The next one could be a total a-s-s and you might not know it till it's to late. Just my thoughts.
2006-10-20 21:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't just fall out of love. It's has to of been building up inside you for awhile with the little thing's that have happened .You still love him and you just need to commuicate with him instead of doing something you might regret in the long run and leaving him hurt and wondering what he did wrong.. I suggest you Find something you both enjoyed and enjoy doing together and spend some quality time together alone,Weather it be a weekend get away, a camping and fishing trip , A night of just cuddling with him watching a move with no children around.Think about all the positive thing's ya'll have had in the past and what you could have in the future.Cuz the grass sometimes isn't greener on the other side. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-10-21 03:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can fall out of love with another person. The thing about marriage is that it is work. You both have to have open lines of communication to express your feelings. You will be surprised how much you love someone when you are both in tune to what is happening in the marriage.
2006-10-21 03:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tragic, but it happens. How to make love stay? is the biggest, toughest question there is. Good luck to you and your husband- I don't envy either of you, it's tough on either side of the fence. Perhaps you should try to get away, or make time to discover each other again. But yeah, sometimes you wake up, and just don't feel the same way. Please don't blame yourself, or him.
Life's a b*tch, you know?
2006-10-21 03:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell out of love rather quickly. For several years, I was really into Winona Ryder. Then, one day, I just didn't care anymore. Now I'm a Kirsten Dunst man.
2006-10-21 03:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, you can fall out of love.........or maybe you were never really "in love" with him in the first place. People change, feelings change, situations change. I stayed for four years after I realized I wasn't in love with him....I worked really hard at trying to make our marraige work......I guess I just got sick of being the only one trying to make it better......and tired of pretending that I was happy. Good luck.......it sucks no matter how you look at it.
2006-10-21 06:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ho hum
marriage takes work
because the infatuation doesn't last forever.
learn to give without thought of return
care because your partner cares.
don't make the marriage your whole life
you are two people, not one.
you can learn it now,
or leave him and take your chances.
you didn't "fall out of love"
you fell out of infatuation
welcome to the real world
what is it that you can contribute to your marriage?
2006-10-21 05:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but falling in love with each other again is the best part. The sex is even better.
2006-10-21 03:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by dorkapoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have some problems at present, that is why you are like that. When the situation changes you will also change. Love is not blind after marriage.
2006-10-21 03:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah but you have this problem if you dont love him then you wont wanna sleep with him so this only means that u want to sleep with someone else like the s l u t u are so can he sleep with someone else and u not get jealous im sure u would hell your p u s s prolly aint no d a m n good anyway
2006-10-21 03:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by asswiper 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋