I came home after a 5 day trip, and it's apparent he was viewing porn and pleasured himself.. (I know this cause I called the house and it was ringing and ringing all night which I was on the road).. Yeah I have dialup! Problem is,, he couldn't perform.. wtf? I'm irked! How do I handle this?
2006-10-20 20:29:38 · 19 answers · asked by Manatee 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
alright hogg, I fixed my typo.. sheesh,, lol.
2006-10-20 20:32:35 · update #1
Some folks are NUTZ, yeah masterbation is normal and yeah I'm glad he didnt' spend time with another person. But sheesh,, if he can't get it up,, due to excessive porn watching, it's an issue!.. lol.. amazing! Pastimes are great, and entertaining, but are only a substitution until the "real" thing is there. OKay, more crazy comments ensuing!
2006-10-20 20:50:33 · update #2
Are you sure it was just porn? He can't perform? Girl, somethings not right..My advice,Pleasure yourself directly in front of him,and if it causes friction,you know what turns him on.. If not...sit down,ask the problem.. Why? You know him better than we do..
2006-10-20 20:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by blueboyswoman 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Men do that. It is no big deal. Seriously. I don't think him not being able to perform and masturbation have anything to do with one another, unless he has become addicted to porn. If he is addicted to porn, that is a whole other issue. But, make no mistake, all men watch porn...all men masturbate. It is perfectly natural. Nothing to worry about. I'd be more worried if he didn't.
They have a word for men who say they don't masturbate and/or watch some form of porn...Liars!
Him not being able to perform can be a serious issue, but only if it happens all the time...for goodness sake, handle the situation delicately. This is hard for men (no pun intended). If he continually can not perform, you may need to see a dr together. Just be sweet and supportive about it.
2006-10-20 20:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is pretty normal. My husband doesn't use porn but because of his work schedule we can only have sex on the weekends and a lot of times he will tell me he was thinking about me and pleasuring himself before bed.
Now if he were seeing another woman THEN you have a problem!
2006-10-20 20:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by RoZ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is a complete different world...atleast he was home with himself than the nieghbor down the street...i can understand you being upset...but be open minded he has needs just as you do and you werent there...give him some time to rest then try again...
2006-10-20 20:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by elitestreetracing 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that when he watches porn/masturbates, he's robbing you. The only time a man should do that is when he is about to have sex with his woman and wants to last longer for her so he uncocks his weapon.
2006-10-20 20:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whats the big deal?? Would you rather proof that he was intimate with another man or woman while you were away?? Think....
2006-10-20 20:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by High? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better himself than another woman. It's no big deal really. All guys do it. Don't get upset over it. There are much worse things he could be doing.
2006-10-20 20:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Me 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Are you saying he mustn't pleasure himself or masterbate? I see nothing wrong with what he is doing. You see, he LOVES you, he has nothing to do with those women in the porn, they are just there to encourage his stimulation.
2006-10-20 20:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He might have gone a little overboard I agree.
But he must have needed to get it out of his system. Let it slide. :)
2006-10-20 23:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by gideon9595 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
watch porn with him duplicating every thing the films do! it's really fun!
2006-10-20 20:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by lonestar-redskin 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋