2006-10-20 20:26:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're getting married for love (and not an arranged marriage) your husband should repect that you're scared and I would also think a virgin??? How experienced is he???
Just take things nice and slow ... you have the rest of your life to experiment ... and yes ... it may be a little awkward uncomfortable and even painful at first ... but I'm sure it's something you'll come to enjoy ;) (no pun intended)
2006-10-20 20:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have read some books or articles on sex and took a anatomy and physiology class. Just educating yourself on sex will cause no harm, it could relieve some of the fears you have about sex. Anything is frightening if you don't know much about it. It's okay to educate yourself on sex even if you are a virgin.
2006-10-21 04:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone worries before they first do it, but you've got nothing to be scared of. You should be focusing more on the fantastic wedding day you re gonna have rather than having sex afterwards, just have a couple of glasses of wine and you'll be more relaxed. When it happens, it happens, try not to think it about it prior. You must love this guy if you're marrying him, he's probably just as nervous as you. Pls stop worrying.
2006-10-21 04:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is natural.
There is nothing to frighten your self.
This tells, you have no knowledge about Sex.
For this, you should know the anatomy of Male and Female.
Don't worry, everything becomes normal, when you have sex with your partner.
Tell me how naturally the animals and creatures have sex and reproduce.
Be natural and everything happens naturally.
A day will come, when you start teaching sex to others naturally.
2006-10-21 03:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must share this feeling with your spouse right away, even after the wedding, and also get help from some good marriage counsellor. most of the times, the fears are pychological. if ur husband is a nice, caring person ur fears will vanish and u will find yourself enjoying this beautiful creation of God.
2006-10-21 05:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by maynze2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, don't let it frighten you. Learning together is the best part. And if you are a virgin good for you. If not then I'd get some major counseling.
2006-10-21 03:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by dorkapoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear it seems u never had sex before. ur hubby will be luckiest man in this world. if u have any questions in ur mind about first sex pl consult with ur family Doctor and u can talk to ur hubby also to take it easy till find urself comfortable.
2006-10-21 04:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by slimshady3in 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd better have a talk with your fiance about this. Tell him to be gentle etc. There's nothing to be afraid of. It can be very pleasurable if the man knows what he's doing. Hopefully your fiance does.
2006-10-21 03:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have no worries its fantastic just be gentle till you get in the swing of it
2006-10-21 03:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take things slow. Make sure you are in the right environment and that you are ready for it.
2006-10-21 03:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Hanky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋