my husband goes to the bars quite often. tonight we both went. while we were there a chik selling dollar shots came up to him(as she knew him)and sold him 2 shots.okay at that point I was a little mad. after that he made the remark that she wants him. then a little later she came back up to him and wispered something in his ear.Iasked what she said and he said the samething that she wanted him.SO then on our way out some other drunk girl went and was huggen all over him.He didnt introduce me so insted i did it myself.Then he stood there and talked and hugged off and on so I left him in there a went to the car. When we got home he said that I was the only one for him. Now mind you I only had one mixed drink and one shot all night.And we were only at the bar for two houres. should i be mad?And why do men act this way?
2006-10-20 20:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could be your husband is just a flirt. i do the same thing around women. its nothing sexual to me i am just a natural flirt and see nothing wrong with it. hes just flirting and all men do it. if there are no other signs of him cheating i would say you have nothing to worry about. have fun go to the bar more often wiith him.
2006-10-21 02:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pretty much a plain vanilla question. A married man has no f***ing business out bar hopping with the guys unless it is rare occasion or a party or such, and you trust him. God, there more bulls**tters around here than in jail, for crissake.Honey, I'd been a barfly in NY from 16 to 40, any guy doing shooters, coochee cooin' with bar chicks and telling you he "doesn't do "anything", is lying. Period. Funny part is you girls never want to hear that, so you skip on in here, ask this ques, and wait for someone to tell you everything's just fine and dandy, and hubby is just a nice guy who all the bimbos go to for marriage questions at the bar (between shots). Stop being so dam gullable or naiive and get real. OK? I'm getting tired of this crap. You know dam well he's lying.Oh, one thing more: all men do not act "this way", YOUR HUSBAND does. Do not blame men for your mistakes. That's disgusting. Now before you go getting upset here, you are the rule, not the exception with this ques. So now you know, guys out by themselves to bars at nite are drinking, looking for a BJ in the toilet or parking lot, smoking crack, weed, huffing coke, or meth or whatever, they are NOT thinking of or talking nice about you. Unless, of course you don't understand him, you are gettin' divorced, you are frigid, you're a biych, you cheat on him, ---get the point??? You are not married to the first guy in the history of mankind who "only reads the articles" kapish?? Now go and fix this.
2006-10-21 03:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My favorite question!! I worked at 2 different places made 1 friend at each they were both married so was I their wives were pretty and nice natured as couples we had dinner
2006-10-21 03:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We act this way cause we like to know we are desired by others. Its a good ego booster but..really stupid. Theres a small chance he doesnt know the gal's name which may explain why he didnt introduce you.
I go to the bar by myself a lot but I lay low. I may chat with a gal briefly but thats it. I can barely keep my wife happy....I ll be really stupid trying to keep 2 women happy.
2006-10-21 03:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a calm person taking it all not much serious. You can change him by your calm character, love, and accepting his nature. A time will come and your husband will come to know about your value.
2006-10-21 03:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should b mad what you should do is sleep with his best friends if he has several then sleep with them all and aaaaaaaaaa start drink much more than u do men love drunk women
2006-10-21 03:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by asswiper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yr man is a frequent bar-goer, then u have to live with it, what to be mad about, there are more or worst things to mad about in future.
2006-10-21 03:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your just jealous...
2006-10-21 03:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋