Alright, here's my dilema. How do men really feel about small breasts? I am a AAA cup. For those who don't know, that is one third of an A cup. I actually don't even fit into a AAA bra...
I haven't dated yet, so I literally have no idea how men are going to respond to my breasts...
I always hear men say "Oh yeah, I'm ok with small breasts, a B is fine," yet I never hear opinions on actual small breasts.
How do they feel about them?
Don't sugar coat it, because I really want to know.
I'm also not the most attractive person in the world. I'm not totally skinny, but not fat either. 5'3, 118 lbs.
Would a guy be hugely dissapointed or "grossed out" by breasts this small?
Btw, if you're a guy, and have dated a girl with breasts this small, I would love to hear your thoughts on the experience...
2006-10-20 19:57:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Oh, and yeah, I'm 18, so they "they'll grow eventually" advice has officially expired.. (ha..)
2006-10-20 20:23:10 · update #1
Okay, here's the way I feel, honestly.
1. I like well shaped, medium size, but I don't like large as well.
2. Very small I don't like, but it's only ONE disadvantage. I think you can make up for it and I would not avoid asking someone out because of that one thing.
3. Ultimately, it shouldn't matter.
4. Nobody wants to go out with me anyway, so it doesn't matter what I think.
5. You're better off because of all the jerks in the world.
6. The most important - a man shouldn't ever be seeing your bare breasts before you're married, anyway.
Don't be concerned about it - use what you have to the best of your ability.
2006-10-20 20:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
I've been with a 32AAA woman and I completely enjoyed her breasts, but then I tend to prefer the petite cups. My eyes always dart to the smaller-busted woman in the room... don't know why. I would say ignore the advice to "accentuate your other charms", as if your build is a liability.
I read a study that said 40% of men preferred big boobs, 30% preferred small, and 30% didn't care about size. In cases where men show a preference, there's usually this kind of split regarding body type. The same exact girl might be described as "too skinny", "too fat", "just right", or "I don't care" by 4 different guys. I've seen this many times w/ my friends. So I'd say don't worry about it. And anyway, I agree that what captivates me as much as specific body type are things like a great laugh, a piercing honesty, an artistic talent, compassion, a huge intellect, or any number of other qualities.
And there are several places online like lulalu-dot-com where you can order sexy underthings that are made for your physique. I think it'd be a mistake to severaly pad yourself so that you look like a "B" when you are really AAA. Better to relish what you have, in my opinion.
2006-10-21 16:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by guyster 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Please do not worry. I was married with a woman with AA and never missed average to large ones even though I was curious. Then many years later I started dating women of all sizes and realized I didn't miss anything. I have an aesthetically preference for a flat chested woman, I like the look of it but it's true, please don't be hurt, that with more developed breasts you can make more games and play around more, of course. But again, that doesn't add to much in a real relation. Every time I made love with a small chested girl I was never disappointed as long as she was confident and ironic about it. It became a complicity game. We can joke about it, appreciate others and laugh. It really has very little importance and many guys think like that, but magazines and TV portray this BS..Be confident and if you'll feel the need when you are older, then you can augment it, but it won't change what really matters in life. A large chest can help a not attractive woman to get attention, but it doesn't make a beautiful one more beautiful, not to me at least. Face is all.
2006-10-23 14:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find small breasts very sexy, but the part of a women I find the hottest is her self esteem as in high self esteem. There are a few other things I look for in a partner, but even if I'm just going to say hi to a girl if I can tell she feels sh#$y about herself and I don't have the time to try and change that, I'm just going to walk away. Sorry If that makes me a d@#K.
2013-11-07 19:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Zachary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they're fine. My wife has small breasts, around A's, and I have no problem. You shouldn't worry too much about things like that. Physical attraction is just one aspect of the vast array of reasons for loving someone. Concentrate on being the best "you" you can be and you'll meet plenty of people who appreciate you for who you are. The last thing you should do is to try to fake it, either with padded bras or awful implants.
2006-10-20 20:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems your only question is "why"? But I guess that's a question without an answer - like why is the sky blue, and the earth brown? Because it looks better that way, than if it was reverse ;o) It probably looks very good and sweet on you. And besides, 34A isn't even the smallest you get ;o) But "Why?" - well that's just the way it is. If you are content, then simply stop calling it "your problem". It really isn't ;o)
2016-05-22 07:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they look cute. I did not realise there was such thing as AAA cup, I thought AA usually meant anything up to 1/2 A cup.
Also if you have other assets, such as curvy hips/butt, you can use them to your advantage and show them off. Most men aren't as concerned about breast size as they are about shape and firmness. I'm sure you are very sexy and that your small breasts would not bother any guy worth dating. HTH : )
2006-10-21 02:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
God yes and I loved that girl...she was a lot of fun and I always thought she was compensating in bed for what she thought were small breast...even though she didn't need to...I hope when you say you haven't dated yet well you are 18...otherwise you are still developing and you shouldn't even be considering intercourse...just have fun with the guy...
don't send your pics to anybody...too many nuts on the internet
2006-10-20 20:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by loofa36 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
There is a country song called Itty Bitty Titties about a guy that likes small breasted women because they are tight between the legs (because other men were going after the bigger breasted women).
2006-10-20 20:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by gregory_dittman 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. All those breast comments you hear from us tactless males are extremely superficial. Normal men don't give a hoot about the size of your hooters, or in your case hoots. We love the girl/woman and that includes the standard equipment. Personally I don't respect a woman who thinks she needs larger breasts in order to be attractive or to feel attractive. You really don't want to be with a guy who wishes you had larger breasts. You gotta love the package, not the details. Seriously, don't even think twice about it. Besides, the comment about not dating yet makes me think that you are still young. My wife tells me that her hoots didn't turn into hooters until college.
2006-10-20 20:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋