its too small?

Question

my husband's penis is too small an he does not gives me pleasure at all i always need to fake! i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i would like to have an orgasm with him which i've never had and i dont know what to do any suggestions?

Answer 1

Stop telling yourself that his penis is too small. Is it larger than your finger? Have you ever achieved orgasm using your finger? If the answer to both questions is yes then there's something wrong with this picture.
Maybe you can get yourself worked up before he gets home and attack him when he walks in the door. Have him to do all kinds of things that you like until you are almost on the brink of orgasm. Then have him enter you quickly and let nature take care of the rest. After that first time forget about trying to, just let it come naturally.
Above all, don't be fake with your husband. Your marriage should be built on love and trust. Not what size penis he has. If you had former partners whose penis was very big, stop comparing him to them. I am assuming you married him because you love him. What is the real problem?
If you continue to have a hang up about that, I would strongly suggest you talk with a sex therapist to help you work your way through that. Best of luck.

Answer 2

You could always tell your husband that you would like to try new things. That way he won't actually know that he isn't pleasing you. You also wouldn't be lying. Find something the 2 of you can enjoy together so you can get the pleasure you want and he can be pleased giving you the pleasure you want. Most men want to make sure they are pleasing thee women 1st and if he doesn't really know your not enjoying it then it will disappoint him and possibly insult him in the long run (if he were to find out you have beem faking it).

Here are a few website you could tr to give you in the bedroom ideas:

http://www.allsexguide.com/sex-for-two.htm
http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/

Sex Positions for small men:

http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/comments6.html
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html

Hope those helped

Answer 3

follow the three simple things below :

1. Foreplay of about one hour before intercourse leads to orgasm--not the size of penis
2. Ask him to lick and suck your vag&clitoris for 20 mins
3. While having intercourse, do not think that u r having intercourse with a small penis--think about the love of ur husband and the foreplay you had--you will have natural orgasm

If you do not get orgasm after following all these,, it is not worth it--forget it

Answer 4

Perhaps suggest to him that you do other methods of stimulation, ie him giving you a good nibble down below, or a fingering, that works always for me, and too try holding your breath, and breathing slowly. WHATEVER YOU DO NEVER TELL HIM HIS PENIS IS SMALL< OR THAT MAY B IT IN THE SACK!!!!

Answer 5

Try using toys like dildos and such he can control them and it basically is like getting off on him but with a little help lol

Answer 6

I would suggest being on top or doggy style. Don't say anything. It could really hurt his ego.

Answer 7

he could use his finger or tounge, rub his penis on your clit while riding you. They're lots of ways you can get pleasure

Answer 8

i really wish i could help ya, but i'm havin the same problem. but some of the other ppls advice seems pretty good. i might try some of them.

Answer 9

take control youself if you know what i mean!!!!
tell him what you like him doing before and during
make more time for foreplay.
size doesnt mean anything its how you use it !!!
good luck

Answer 10

... umm kkkkkkkkkk ... what does this have to do with pregnancy?? read some romance novels or take a cold shower, yuk!!