I hate that I do that b/c almost everytime when that happens the guy moves on. I don't even know if he likes me back, but he sure flirts with me. I wanna be able to have the confidence to talk to him again like a use to instead of ignoring him.
2006-10-20 18:25:09 · 5 answers · asked by D. 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I know what you mean. Shy people can seem aloof and disinterested.
People get the wrong impression because shy people give off the wrong vibes.
It's hard but if you can find the nerve, try and talk to him again and think about something else. Even though your knees are shaking, try and seem light hearted and hopefully in time this will become easier for you.
2006-10-20 18:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've always been shy, I think it changes with age a bit. Once I hit college, shyness went out the window. I found that after seriously dating a couple of people I felt a lot more confident with my abilities to communicate with someone I really liked and instead of being shy and reserved, I learned to let my true self shine through.
I would suggest talking with a lot of guys for practice, not necessarily ones that you like, but just get yourself out there and get more comfortable with flirting and just being you. Then when the one that you really likes comes along, you won't feel so uncomfortable talking to them.
Take heart in knowing that this type of shyness is something to grow out of, I think we all go through it.
2006-10-21 01:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Heather M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel shy that is how you were created. But I don't think that you give bad vibe because of shyness. Each of us has a way to fight back, the hedgehog has spikes, the dog fangs, the donkey rear kick and a good lady fearing to be disappointed? Right! bad vibe1
It's a defense mechanism that comes into play every tie there's fear.Probably because you are fearing something that happened to you before or happened to a close Friend of yours is going to happen to you.
2006-10-21 01:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi omg i allways used 2 hav this problem but now im ok i just talked 2 them and if he flirts wiv u then u flirt back and then he will probally start tlaking 2 u and then u start tlaking back lolz and then thats tlaking 2 him and sumtimes u ask him or sya things 2 him it will work hun dw neva no ull probally be wiv him!
2006-10-21 01:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by cara! c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you finally in your mind determine that there is a need for a male, you "will" talk with them and find a way to keep them interested (other than flirting/sex).
2006-10-21 04:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋