my boyfriend and i hevent been together for a long time because he was always busy but yesterday he promised me to go somewhere but when i texted him today if were going anywhere he didnt even text me back i feel like he doesnt even care about me at all even thoug he always tells me that he loves me and wants to be with me forever and never lose me but i think if he would really love me and not wanting to lose me he would fined some time for me to go hang out ....
2006-10-20 18:17:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You two haven't been together long and he's saying he loves you and wants to be with you forever? That's red flag number one. Then again, you're plobably saying the same thing back so scratch that flag. Look, you should know him well enough to know if this is a busy time in his life or if he's got things going on where he may 'want' to spend time with you but simply can't. If that's not the case, then it basically comes down to if he wanted to be with you he would be, but he isn't and hasn't been so something's up. Possibly lost interest? I don't know. That's for you to figure out.
2006-10-20 18:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared for you then he would make time. What is his reason for not texting??? Does he work a lot??? How old is he?? A majority of the time if a guy says he's going to take you somewhere and then doesn't even call or let you know, then something else better is on his plate and he doesn't care as much as he said he does. He's selfish and rude!!! Dump him and don't forgive him. If you do, then he will just keep doing the same thing over and over again.
2006-10-21 01:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be a busy guy although you like him but let’s face the fact he can not provide you with love + attention so if those two are important in a relationship and in long term you will be depressed but if they were not then it does not make any difference if you have them or not so u might as well stay in this relationship ship
2006-10-21 01:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Eng.F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he wouldn't be ignoring you. In my opinion, I think his I love yous are a cover up for making you stay with him. Why should you be with a person who doesn't even come around. It seems as if he doesn't really care, as long as he can say he has a girlfriend. If he wanted to be with you forever he would make the moments you have together feel worthwhile, but is he doing that?
2006-10-21 01:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should for give him it's hard trying to find a good man even though he's not there now he will sooner or later and it's better then not having no one at all you don't want that it does not feel good trust me i know unless he is not treating you right at all then i say leave him cause you can do better other then that stay and work things out
2006-10-21 02:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by sarah l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find some fun elsewhere. Just because he is your bf doesnt mean that yoour time is only obligated to him. Get out there and have fun. Life is too short to sit and wait on any one person. :)
2006-10-21 01:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about it even if it's hard. You need to tell him how you feel and see if he can change or explain. If he can't, maybe he just isn't good enough for you. Don't reject him immediatly, talk to him first, but be very wary. Remember to be firm with him and with yourself. Don't fret too much about it and try to look inside yourself to see how you feel about him and about his behavior, not just outward to strangers advice.
2006-10-21 01:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cassandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got it right. Dump him. He is obviously too busy to be a quality guy for a relationship. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-21 01:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even you even have to ask then you shouldnt forgive him because he isnt worth it... And if he really loved you he would prove it.. Another thing is you should just follow your heart it will tell you whether you're right or wrong
2006-10-21 01:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first talk to him and tell him that its not working, if he agree with you then dump him, there's a lot of guys out ther wanting your precious time.. go out and find someone better than him
2006-10-21 02:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋