Has anyone felt so alone that everywhere you looked everyone looked away? I told someone that I liked them and was developing feelings for them and wanted a chance with them and he thinks we fight too much to have a relationship. I assured him that we would fight sometimes regardless and he then told me he wanted to see how it was going to work with someone else. I do want him to be happy, but I also want him to be happy with me. Is that selfish??? I hear songs on the radio and I think about him. We've been friends for a long time, but never anything more really. I cheated on my ex with him so I can see why he would have his doubts about me cheating on him, but I know that if we got together I wouldnt cheat on him. He has been there for me through a lot of stuff. Can anyone tell me what to do???
2006-10-20 18:15:01 · 8 answers · asked by ~MandiNic~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No. that is not selfish. i had the same thing happen to me my friend joe has beenthere for me for ever and i wanted to be with him. then i realized that we were to close to be a couple . i just tajnked god we were as close as we were. just take it slow and see how things go. in the future maybe then youll have a chance.
hope my help was ok for you....
have a great day
ashley <>.<>.<>.
2006-10-20 18:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the sme problem. i am so lonely rght now. but I have this friend that has been ther for me since we were little. Now irealized that we are close enough to be a couple. But I don't feel feelings for him yeah, he is great person and Iwould love to be with him but he said to me himself he didn't like me like that. Just ask him straightforward yes or no if he likes you. if yes, well, get together if not you will be better off as being just friends. maybe, you like him and he likes you but e just doesn't see it because he sees years of frienship but he might come around to his senses and realizes that you are the one. just be patient.
2006-10-20 19:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by walmart_parakeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer conceal your thoughts, till now it extremely is too late! %. an suitable time and asks to talk to him - tell him you treasure the friendship, could like it to be greater effective yet you felt that it extremely is fading. Asks him does he felt a similar (fading away and thoughts for you). From the solutions, you will locate the failings which you may desire to do - that there is no longer something incorrect interior the 1st place (you subject too lots), according to hazard he needs it that way (to no longer be too close) or possibly he grew to become into no longer his familiar self of late (something's bothering him and so on). stable success.
2016-11-24 20:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel thats happened to me! But the best way i think that you can deal with it is to show him that you really do love him and that maybee you and him would be the best match! And they say that every great couples start out as friends so go for it and i hope it turns out well!!!
2006-10-20 18:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about feeling alone, it is the path of my life, everywhere i look everybody turns away. just get used to it.
now, you say that you've been friens but nothing more, then how could you cheat with him????! Just talk to him, and stay good friends, or make him jealous somehow.
2006-10-20 18:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, I found that even the best chicks arent perfect
2006-10-20 18:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by S--slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP fighting and back him some of your home cooking.
2006-10-20 18:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is so complicated , I have to grow up to understand you.
2006-10-20 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋