If you were proposed to by two different guys that you have known for over three years, how would you pick which one to marry? Both are equal in looks, finances, and how much they love you. Any answers/opinions excepted, but do not say "pick the one you love the most" or "find number three".
2006-10-20 18:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Major Max Confusion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if you just had a long time best friend that proposed to you? And I'm not saying you guys are dating?
2006-10-20 20:15:06 · update #1
maybe you should't have been dating two people at once, then you wouldn't have this problem.
2006-10-20 18:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by whosaidthat? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously dating two men at the same time and they offer you their hand in marriage... you obviously love neither of them because if you did you wouldn't be dating another person. People like that are the reason divorce is so popular these days and make marriage a disgrace. How are we supposed to NOT say pick number three or pick the one you love the most? Okay- I won't- here's a new option- become an old lady who is single and has 80 cats indoors.
2006-10-21 03:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woldn't be in that situation because I wouldn't lead anyone on in a relationship. If I was having that close of a relationship with someone then I would have to be totally monogomous and I wouldn't be dating two men at the same time.
2006-10-21 02:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you are young dont tie yourself down to anyone. The world is a big place and there are so many other people out there waiting to meet you and you will never know if you dont get out there and experience life. There is nothing wrong with dating people as long as the people you are dating know you are. You need to be truthful with both of them and let them both know how you feel and you find out who is willing work it out and who is going to leave you. Be honest with them and with yourself.
2006-10-22 11:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are you won't marry either. I have been in this situation, and I have known others.
However your heart will tell out ... or one or both of them will wear out.
You have missed however an essential part in mate selection.
Who can you be you with. Who do you like best to hang out with. Watch TV, eat favorite foods with. watch ku fu movies .. etc.. Who makes you smile. Who makes you hot, really hot. Who's religion is most compatable with yours. Who do you want to please and have please you. Who do you want to make dinner for? Who can you respect to be the father of your children. Who fits in best with the realatives . Do you like his relatives .. and they you? Who's job do you respect.
add these things up .. one indeed may (or indeed may not) be a clear winner.
2006-10-21 01:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how the hell are we suppose to help you with this question without telling pick the one you love the most... that is the only answer to your questions... we dont knwo what you're feeling for each one of them... at least be more specific with your questions...
2006-10-21 01:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pick either one. Don't settle. When you find the man that you want to be with forever, you will know it. If you can't decide, maybe you shouldn't be choosing
2006-10-21 01:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky girl. I guess only you can make that decision.
Which one would be the most trustworthy as a husband.
2006-10-21 01:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you date them both and can't decide, then I wouldn't advise you to accept a ring from either of them.
2006-10-21 01:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever one you pick your gonna be regretting it 3 years down the road... your gonna have problems sooner or later and wished you would have picked the other.. my advice is NEVER GET MARRIED!
2006-10-21 01:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you already know what our answers would be. why are you asking? why would you bother getting married if you need to poll responses to answer the poor guys???
2006-10-21 01:17:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋