Okay, I have these two good friends. I guess we get along ok but the only problem is they talk bad about eachother behind the others back!
Like, whenever I'm hanging out with one of them, she always starts talking about my other friend in a rude way, and then with the other one, it's exactly the same only the other way around! I really feel like I should confront them both and tell them to stop, but I'm afraid to do that because their both sensitive and get mad pretty easily. I want them to get along and I really don't want to loose their friendship! Got any ideas? Please help!
2006-10-20 17:59:10 · 4 answers · asked by ridenqween1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to sort out the problem between both the two, may be there is a misunderstanding between both of them which you can resolve.
2006-10-20 18:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by ritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty much stuck in the middle, the worst place to be. Talk to the, when one starts talking about the other change the subject. Confront each of them separately asking why they dislike each other. Then as you collect this information, you will gather a conclusion to resolve this problem in a way that no one gets hurt. Just tell them both that you are tired of being in the middle and them being on the outside. You all need to be formed into one. A friendship is very easy to lose without even trying to lose it. Some words you say might be portrayed totally different to that person than you which will cause them to be upset, but that doesn't solve anything.
2006-10-21 01:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, when those two friends are together they talk about you too. Stay neutral in the relationship and just be mature. I don't know how old you are but I can tell you this... when you are in your teens and twenties and you have good friends and you think that you will stay "BFF" things change and people drift apart. There are a few that stay close for a long time but don't think that they don't have the occasional gap in relationship when they loose touch.
2006-10-21 01:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by forme2poopon73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same issue with two of my friends... im afariad to talk to them to.... ur situation a little simpler tho... i would just tell one of em that u thinks its rude and it bothers u.. tell them instead of complaining to u, tell the other person
2006-10-21 01:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Silly!! (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋