My son is always carrying a purple bandana?

Question

my son isnt gay
every time i ask him about it he respondes in "just because"
he has few other clothing thats purple
and i always see his friends with sumthing purple on

Answer 1

wake up bud your sons a "gangsta". however he could be on heroin. back in the day heroin addicts would carry a folded up bandanna in a back pocket and use it to tie off to pump up a vein for a fix

Answer 2

He is probably doing a precdure. Everyone else says that he is becomming a gang member. It could be true. When he goes to school or somewhere, observe his items. Probably he has like deadly weapons or anything violent or sexual. If you found anything just like that, it means he is in a gang. You can also tell if he has a bad attitude towrds you. Check his computer if has one and check the documents and folders to check if he has something to hide. Check his closet and under his bed and matress. Anything. If he is not like those violent people and he is just a nice guy and won't harm anyone, he is probably joining a group or a club at school. You can also talk to the teachers of him and tell them what's going on in his study like a parent conference. The teachers and the principle will give you sometimes vital information about the purple. Don't like take this seriously like spying and all that. You don't have to be curious. Just do some little investigation. If you have more information, add them on your question so that I could know more about your son and I can give you more information on the situation of the problem.

Answer 3

I would definitely ask around for the local gang colors. There may be some drug use, the bandana are used to make veins more visible. I would NOT consider it as a security blanket if his friends all have them as well. I think you are naive to think that.

I would really talk to his school counselor (on the phone so not to show up at school) and see how he is doing in school and if there have been behavioral problems. Or if he has new friends.

Answer 4

I work in the schools and this is what they go by
The Hanky Code

The hanky code originated in the early 1970s primarily as a means of distinguishing more specific sexual interests when the original SM (or at least DS)-orientated leather scene was enlarging and style of dress could not be relied upon as an indicator of more esoteric sexual interests. The claim for the first published hanky code lies with Ron Ernst who drew one up in collaboration with Alan Selby (the original Mr S) for their San Francisco store Leather N Things; this code was published in the Bay Area Reporter in 1972.

The codes used have varied from time to time and place to place, and the many subsequently published collected versions contain numerous variants and contradictions. Some of these versions have so many entries it is unlikely even the most dedicated 70s scene queen could have memorised them all, and many of the entries in these are doubtless compiler's fancies rather than codes anyone actually used.

Nevertheless there are a few well-established colours that have a wider currency, and we show a selection of these below. In particular, black, red, grey, brown, yellow and dark blue are the most widely recognised and still likely to be encountered.

The hanky itself is in fact usually a substantial bandana. The general principle is to wear the appropriate colour in the back pocket of your jeans so that it is clearly showing, choosing the side according to the left-right convention described above, where left means top or active and right means bottom or passive. Where this is impossible because of the clothing you are wearing, for example if you are dressed in rubber, you can tie the hanky round one of your upper arms. If you don't want to commit yourself to a role, you can always wear the hanky round your neck

Some of the colours are so well known that their names are used in contact ads or even in speech as codewords for the activity concerned: this is particularly the case for red, yellow and brown. Someone might say 'I'm into yellow' rather than 'I'm into piss' or 'watersports'.

Black: Paingames, Whipping
Dark Blue: *******
Light Blue: Oral Sex
Brown: ****
Grey: Bondage
Olive or Khaki: Military Scenes
Light Pink: **** Toys
Dark Pink: Nipple Torture
Red: Fisting
White: Wanking
Yellow: Piss
Purple: Piercings
Mustard: Big Cock
Green: Rent
Lavender: Drag, Cross Dressing
Orange: Anything Anytime (L) or Nothing Now (R)
Beige: Rimming
Charcoal: Rubber
Red and White Stripes: Shaving

* Various versions of the hanky code have been posted on the web. Try The Canonical Hanky Code, or the one archived at the University of Washington.
* There is a very extensive list of codes in the appendix to Jacques 1993.

Answer 5

i could say a youthful infant could locate this text of fabric enjoyable to have around, perchance even a toy. He could additionally like the colour and there's a probability that he feels secure whilst he has the fabric around. regardless of if, if he's at an older age, I advise which you ask him why he's retaining this bandanna each and every of the time. Does it advise something to him? the place did he see people retaining it? you additionally must word what he watches and what he sees around the living house because of the fact this perchance a factor of this bandanna retaining. good success...

Answer 6

Gang

Answer 7

Maybe your son is just trying to get some attention from you. if that's not it and you do pay attention to him and are there for him (even if he doesn't say he needs you), then maybe he's in a gang

Answer 8

he just likes purple or in a purple gang

Answer 9

It depends how old you son is. If he is less than 16 years old you have nothing to worry about. but if he is older you might what ask him if he gay or not.

Answer 10

Gang.