Okay, she got raped by her boyfriend at the time...
Who is now her ex...
& Now shes pregnant.
Her parents don't know.
& Not that many of her friends know.
I want to help her, but I don't know how...
Help Please. =/
2006-10-20 17:26:17 · 14 answers · asked by lovin_him.alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing, even though it's hard is to encourage her to tell the truth to those she trusts.. hopefully that is one or both of her parents or a relative. Even if they will be upset or not believe her at first, they will usually come to their senses and relationships can be made stronger by these situations. The boyfriend should be stopped, because he'll probably do it again.
2006-10-20 17:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well be there for her and be supportive of her. It's hard and sometime things get harder. So time she might not want the baby. It's very hard. I went through something like it and let me tell you she needs someone to talk to her and really be there for her. Throught the good and the bad time. My child is now 3 and It was hard at first when I find out be I love her as I would any of my child. But I had people to talk to. She need people to be there for her when she is ready not other people. Do push her to do anything. But mostly be a good listener. God Bless you both.
2006-10-20 17:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you could do sue the ex for sexual assault or tell the parents that she is pregnant but don't ever abort the baby if not your friend your will feel depressed and she will regret she ever aborted. If i was your friend i will tell the parents the truth from the beginning to the end and I'm sure that your friends parents will support her. and tell someone she trusts the most and please support her through all the way and good luck through all the way god bless both of you
2006-10-20 17:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing she should do is tell her parents and then slap a charge on this guys face boyfriend or not this is still date rape so she will need all the support that she could get and don't talk about boys or boyfriends around her cuz she will just shut down right away always tell her that its ok and that she has your support
2006-10-20 18:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell the police and also tell her parents. I know its hard telling her parents because they probably have the mindset of thinking she had sex and messed up and in the end>>she's now blaming him and proclaiming that he's raped her. But, what can you do but tell your parents. If she waits and tells later when she has a bump on the belly then her parents are most likely not going to believe her.
2006-10-20 17:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one rule is she needs to tell her parents.
Number two, she needs to report the rape/sexual assault to the police and file charges on him. They can do a DNA test after the baby is born.
Number three, she needs to see a hypnotherapist and tape the session for the police and also to help her get over the incident.
If you do all of these things, she will have been helped by you.
2006-10-20 17:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be there for her and try to get her as much info as you can about pregnancy, parenting, legal advise on how to get the guy to respond for what he did and his kid as well. But once again more than anything you have to just be there for her as a friend giving advice and listening as well.
2006-10-20 17:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents. They will be the biggest help. She should have went to them when it happened. She needs to get help. Maybe you could help her tell her parents. Sit with them, it may be harder for her to talk maybe you could help her out. Just be her best friend and do what you think is right for the sake of your friend and her baby.
2006-10-20 17:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to inform her parents. But dont tell her friends its kinda personal. Just keep it between close friends and family
2006-10-20 17:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by kia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'd better get an adult into this,, things can go wrong and will if not talked through with someone that has gone through it,, tell her to be smart,, and thanks for helping her,, counselor at school is good,
2006-10-20 17:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋