i am tired of waiting, i have been single for almost 11months now. and it sucks. why is it so hard to find that one person who would complete me, instead of meeting ppl in the bar and having meaningless sex?
2006-10-20 17:23:30 · 18 answers · asked by kispioxman2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is that too long for u?lol
i've been single for 1 n 3 mos now, its really hard to find a good one, so the only que would be..will u be a good partner...u'll find one soon, i'm sure of that....
cheers to our singlehood! lol
2006-10-20 17:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as another person "completing" you. They can complement you, but you can't think that someone needs to fill a void. You have to be your own, whole and complete person before you can share your world. Stop going to the bars. Stop having meaningless sex. Instead take that energy and focus on discovering yourself. Learn to feel comfortable being by yourself, no one around to distract you from you.
2006-10-20 17:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by chnchita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meaningless casual wham bam sex,in these days???
You think 11 months is bad wait until its years.
Stop with the casual sex,and the bars,and rethink about the person you want trully and where they would likely be.
It'll come to you.
2006-10-20 17:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people believe in love but if you are looking for a "good" man in bars then you are never going to find one. Good men don't hang out in bars or go cruising for sex. You want to find a great guy then try hanging out in bookstores, Starbucks, libraries, join a volunteer group in your area... Most men in bars are only there for booze and sex... so if you stay in that mentality you are only going to meet players!
2006-10-20 17:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe in true love...i am one of the lonliest people i know...ok, so i laugh, joke and flirt but all i really want is someone to call my own...i have been settling for sub standard men just so i won't be the only one without someone...do i believe i will eventually fall in love again and get married, yes, i never give up...it will happen when i least expect it! in the meantime make the most of your single life! have fun with friends, kids or whoever and get yourself out where the chances of meeting someone good are better...church, bazaars, bowling...broaden your horizons...sex will always be available, being in love is so much better....
2006-10-20 18:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by bev_lev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be trying too hard....going to the bars can only get you in trouble...try the library, car wash,or even grocery stores. Relax and stop rushing it....Try not to be so picky, because a picky person will always be alone....Most importantly, when you get with that person make sure you are making that person feel wanted....
2006-10-20 17:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, stop looking for sex in bar, it dont hang out in bars. As a matter of fact, just stop looking for love, when it right and when it's real it will find you. Of course people beleive in love, love makes the world go around.....Love will find you...have a little faith.
2006-10-20 17:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the good ones are at home watching TV on their comfy sofa....ummm, like me.
Hey...meaningless sex can lead to bad problems....not love.
I think many have become cynical inlove. Did you not read the article: "For first time, unmarried households reign in US "...here is the link: http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20061015/ts_alt_afp/afplifestyleussociety.
Read it and weep.
2006-10-20 17:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As good as meaningless sex can be, it doesn't always lead to a relationship. Hold back on the tonsil hockey and maybe they'll arrange another date with you.
2006-10-20 17:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by jewel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know,but from experience most people you find in a bar are only one night standers.Just get out and mingle your true love will come.Trust me it took me 3 times to get it right and when they come you will know it.I hope it helps.
2006-10-20 17:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by m.lewis8900@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋