the love of my life lies to me about being on porn sites before we meet what do i do
2006-10-20 17:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by twobjill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know about you, but a lie is a lie and I don't like being lied to. If he lies about that-he will lie about ANYTHING.
Obviously you can't trust him-so why do you want to continue to be with him?
2006-10-20 17:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is not that he looks at porn, its that he lies about it. Tell him you don't care about the porn, tell him he's dumb to lie about crap like that. Look at the porn with him. Show him you understand the way he thinks. Maybe he has had experiences of women who complain about porn. Just tell him you dont care, but he better not lie to you again or youll find out and you wont forgive him next time. Tell him that.
Porn is really nothing, unless he is looking at violent or really weird porn. If its just normal stuff, he'll grow out of it........eventually. Give him the real thing and he won't have time for the fake thing.
Good Luck!
2006-10-22 07:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by NurseKaia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, be in a real love relationship first and just tell him its ok and just be honest with you. My fiance tells me when he messes up and masturbates>>that makes our relationship stronger because we are honest with each other about our deepest weaknesses. Some guys cant hold off on that whole masturbation thing or porn thing because its addictive and its a stress reliever for them. Be honest with him first and in turn he'll be honest with you. Communication is what makes a relationship work.
2006-10-21 00:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HERE IS SOMETHING WITH AUDACITY, HOW ABOUT CREATING A SITE STARTING YOU AND GIVE HIM THE ADDRESS TO THE SITE SO ONLY HE CAN SEE YOU IF HE WANTS TO SEE PORN THEN GIVE IT TO HIM I BET YOU WOULD LIKE IT IF HE FANTASIZES ABOUT YOU INSTEAD OF OTHER WOMEN!!!!
2006-10-21 00:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some Prof, and remember the past is the past. but let him know that he does not have to lie because he is the love of urlife and u will understand and be there for him, and not judge him....
just be sure that is he is truthful now that u are together.... take care...
2006-10-21 00:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can u do .they do it regardless .it's like their r addicted porn they had a thing about porn on t.v and it does something to their brain..i don't think u can ever get them to stop porn is like cockroaches they will never die...
2006-10-21 00:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him which ones hen look thm up. If he is a tru liar dump him. ho do u khow when the next time he lies to u???
2006-10-21 00:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about that.Communication is the key to make a relationship happy.Good luck.
2006-10-21 00:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean before you actually met, or do you mean before he sees you for the day?
2006-10-21 00:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost guys loves to to be in porn....its other way of having them horny.
2006-10-21 00:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋