I was with my ex for 10 years we have 4 children and one on the way. he lives with me and we still have sex and sleep in the same bed...I have found out he has sleep with another female that he was spending a lot of time with and even talks to her 50X a day on my phone!!! he told me he would let me know when he moves on in that way, but he never told me it's been going on for about a year now. I on the other hand have not had sex with anyone but him for the past 10 1/2 years.....so after I have the baby I am thinking I will feel much better if I 2 sleep with someone new
2006-10-20 17:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by yo..her..bitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that might make you even more depressed
2006-10-20 17:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by center of the universe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't going to like me...sorry....but!!...you have 4 kids, and one on the way with this man, you stated....He is sleeping with another woman, and/or talking to her 50x's a day, and your next question, while friggen pregnant, is will you feel better if you sleep with someone else? How old are you? You really can not be this stupid!!!! Or I guess you can...As a woman your question really urks my a**....this is why we have kids with problems, which judging from your thinking, yours may end up on the Dr. Phil show later on in life...Keep the nickle between your knees, and Grow UP!!!!
2006-10-21 00:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR ISSUE ISN'T ABOUT SEX IT'S ABOUT GETTING BACK AT HIM FOR NOT BEING HONEST TO YOU. YOU HAVE A WHOLE RESPECT THING GOING ON TO OR LACK OF. HE SHOULDN'T BE TALKING TO OTHER WOMEN IN FRONT OF YOU THAT'S VERY DISRESPECTFUL. YOU KNOW THAT HE HAS MOVED ON AND YOU DON'T WANT TO FACE IT . WELL NOW IS THE TIME FOR YOU TO GATHER YOURSELF TOGETHER HAVE A GOOD CRY LET THE FEELINGS FLOW AND REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN. LET THIS LOSER GO. I KNOW HE'S THE FATHER OF THE KIDS BUT HE NEEDS TO KNOW YOU HAVE FEELINGS AND YOUR NOT GOING TO PUT UP WITH HIS MESS ANYMORE. PUT HIM IN THE GARAGE, BASEMENT OR ON THE CURVE, GET HIM OUT SO YOU CAN MOVE ON. BE STRONG ..LIVE WELL AND LOVE YOURSELF
2006-10-21 00:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that would compromise your own integrity. This can be especially difficult when you learn that the person that you love has been with someone else. You may feel momentary revenge, but my guess is that you will feel worse in the end.
2006-10-21 00:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by heather#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would only make you feel better for the moment and probably worse afterwards...
...depends on the person you are sleeping with and your connection and how you really feel about the situation you're about to enter...
that's a toughee... wish you good luck -> I left the one doing that to me...
2006-10-21 00:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by FBiT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Protect yourself and go for it sweetie !
2006-10-21 00:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋