Is there anyone that you miss at this moment in time?

Question

Tell us a bit about it - if you're up for it.


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Answer 1

I miss my husband. He is alseep upstairs because he worked a night shift. He was deployed all last year and since then I cannot stand being away from him even if he is just in a different room. I think I have post traumatic stress from him being gone so long. My heart goes out to the Army wives who have to endure even longer and more frequent deployments. I don't know how they do it.

I miss my mom. We had a rough time over Christmas last year and had a falling out. Since then she and my dad have divorced. Me and mom talk again but we haven't seen each other since the **** hit the fan and I'd like to spend some time with her.

I miss my brother. We also had a falling out last year. We are on speaking terms again but the relationship is chipped. It can never be fully repaired and I really miss what we used to have.

I miss my best friend. We are two peas in a pod. We live on different continents. We have an amazing connection and when we're apart it feels weird. When we're together I feel so much better. I miss doing crazy things and just being goofy with her. I can't totally be myself around anyone else the way I am with her (well...except for my husband). I wish I had more friends I had that type of connection with.

I also miss my other friend who used to live here. She was into the paranormal the way I am and we used to go on ghost investigations. It isn't easy finding people willing to do that!! She is one of the smartest people I know. I like the way she looks at the world and I could count on her for advice. When I think of her I think of the word "wise" and she is four years younger than me!

That is my list for the moment. Thanks for letting me get all of that out. :)

Answer 2

I really miss my grandfather. He died of complications due to cancer more than five years ago, weeks before our first kid was born. He was a very kind, gracious man with a great sense of humor, amazing work ethic, and genuine soul. Often I think he'd enjoy seeing our (now) two children growing up, and it's hard to think that my boys will never know the person responsible for helping raise me and instill so much of his wit and wisdom in his final years. Gramps was a spry, healthy man who kept his mind challenged and rarely spoke ill of anyone. His demise was too quick, too soon.

I especially miss him during the autumn because often after high school, I'd walk over to their home and he'd have a fire going in the fireplace, and he'd often be pulling out fresh-baked bread from the oven. Such a great aroma, on cold gray days.

Answer 3

I miss my dad - he was an alcoholic and commited suicide when I was six. I never got to know him. I was always told he was a very good compassionate person when he wasn't drinking - but he had such a hard life when he was growing up - that drinking was his escape. Of course this was in the 60's and things were so different then - a person couldn't get the help then that they do now. We can be thankful for how far we have come.

Answer 4

D.D. Kennedy. We carried on what I thought would be a lifetime friendship. Before we would lose touch but when we re-connected it was like great. Recently we lost touch and re-connected and he seemed the same but all of a sudden he has cut me out like a paper doll. We were on the computer a lot then he just stopped answering. I sent him one last e-mail and told him if I didn't hear from him after this one I'd leave him alone. He read it(I checked status). I haven't heard from him. He has my phone number. It was like a hard hit to the solar plexus to lose him as a friend after 31 years but guess I know now there is no such thing as true friendship. Still it hurts like HEdbl hockey sticks.

Answer 5

I miss my best friend.
So much! So badly. I need to talk to her, I have to tell her the stuff that goes through my mind and how I feel.
I need her advice, and I need her to tell me what an idiot this guy is for not being with me. I miss her very badly.
*sigh*
She moved to a new house where she still doesn't have a phone and her cell phone got stolen, so we haven't had a lot of communication for a while.

I really miss her.

Answer 6

Yes..... there are two people I miss intensely.

First...... my dad, who died at the age of 75 in 2002. If I dwell too long on the fact that he is gone, I still get very weepy. He appears in my dreams a lot, and usually I just accept the fact that he is there because it seems right. But as soon as I remember in my dream that my father is actually dead, he runs or hides from me..... and that is very frustrating.

Second....... there is someone very special in my heart..... someone whom I can never be with because circumstances will not allow it, but whom I love very, very much. SIGH.

Answer 7

No. Not at the moment... I have the people closest to me near by... And those who are far away, are still in my heart... It is all just a matter of communication between those we share a part of our hearts with and who we have freely given a piece of our own to...
And for those lost in death... The remembrance of the special times hold close to our hearts... ♥

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

Yes, my grandmother, my dad's mom, she lived with us and took care of my sister and I since we were 4/9 while parents communted 2 hours away for work each day.
She was a kind, gentle soul, and let us feed baby animals with bottles(raccoon, deer, piglets)we lived in the country.
we used to make mac/cheese, iced tea and play rummy for hours on snow days.
she died of lung cancer when I was 26, it almost killed me, because she did alot of what mom's do, I felt like I'd lost my mother, but, knew she was my grandma, so, in my grief, I didn't know where to place her.
with counseling and prayer, I've accepted it.

Answer 10

Good question...I liked reading the previous answers. I miss my kitty...I put him down recently and am still upset about it. But reading the other responses really puts things in perspective for me...could be alot worse.