my soon to be ex wife has totaly crushed me with all her acussing and lieing and cheating granted I was not a angel there was some vilonce between us in the begining but hey what do u expcet when she calls at 4 in the morning and says shes in her ex bed and then has a affair for 2 to 3 months and the worst part is I really did love her now everything and everybody is something somehow that I am ******* or trying to I just wish it could be like it was in the begging cause not only did I loose my wife but my best friend that she was in the beiging
2006-10-20 17:02:25 · 11 answers · asked by fedorff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm so sorry to hear that...don't lose hope n move on, heal urself by letting go of ur feelings for her. u may lost ur wife but u gain urself respect n peace..she wasn't ur bestfriend not even ur partner. u did a wrong choice when u married her, n now is the time for u to pick urself up n be a renewd person again. keep ur faith on love, there was this old song that goes like "its the lover not the love, who broke ur heart ....."don't beg for her, she is not worthy,good luck to u....
my ex cheated on me too, so i know how u feel...
2006-10-20 17:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think this question is a fake - I believe you are the same person that has been here for the past two days that I know of, that keep saying things to get a reaction from people. I do not know how you change profiles so often, but you can not change the date you got on here- it is always most recent date, and you have no real history.
2006-10-21 01:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by RY 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok, first of all, there is NEVER any excuse to put your hands on a woman. NEVER! I don't care if she slept with your best friend, leave her azz before you hit her. second, do you really want a woman like this around. she obviously has no respect for you at all. marriage is supposed to be about loyalty, trust, and honesty. she has proven that she is not capable of any of those. she is not the person you married and you will never be able to look at her the same anyway. cut her loose and move on.
2006-10-21 00:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
keep your guard up better next time. If you don't love her now... WHY ARE YOU HERE to complain? You got screwed over it happens A LOT. It sucks A LOT. You never have a right to get violent get control of that before dating anyone else or it will land you in jail and ruin any chance of ever having a happy home...GOOD LUCK. She was a slut accept it move on don't deal with her or women like her from now on.
2006-10-21 00:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was never ready for a commitment in the beginning. Sorry, but there are many, many people out there who will use another human being without any conscience that makes them feel the least bit sorry. Sorry this has happened. When you finish grieving, move on but don't pick out another one like this one. Take care....
2006-10-21 00:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need help. You should never hit a woman no matter what the reason. People cheat for many reasons. I would've cheated on you too if you hit me. Maybe you have a lot to do with this relationship ending and you don't see it or don't want to see it. Grow up and get help.
2006-10-21 13:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by 2 S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing anyone does can justify violence maybe it's for the best you stay away. LOVE doesn't hurt.
2006-10-21 00:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is hard but thing will get better for you, and she has only hurt herself, she will return for you to forgive her, this will hurt, but must let her go, show her you will not keep putting up with her s h i t.after you teach her a lesson, then after you heal you can move on, maybe you two might get back together.
2006-10-21 00:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
because she wasn't the right person......life is a b tch sometimes, and I bet you'll be more cautious now....
2006-10-21 00:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop feeling sorry for yourself... grow your balls back and ditch the beyatch
2006-10-21 00:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋