how do i know if he really loves me or if he is just saying it to be saying it?i want to live with him but i can't be with a man who i don't think really loves me.but he always says that if he didn't love me he would not be talkin to me after all i have put him through.but what does he mean by that please help me
2006-10-20 16:40:38 · 5 answers · asked by Justina F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, have you considered he's FORGIVEN you for everything? don't move in with him. that's always a bad idea. you may have some self esteem issues. but you DO need to analyze his character. and your own. you need to figure out if he's a good man. does he have a legitimate job? or is he lookin for a sugar mama? is this a quality man? does he listen to authority figures? and what about you? are you ready to be in a commited relationship with a quality man? do you have a job? you really need to analyze all this. ask yourself if you are ready for this type of relationship and analyze your self esteem.
2006-10-20 16:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to sit down an talk. I talk to strangers on the street, but that doesn't mean I love them. Love is patient, love is kind, love look past flaws and faults, love conquers all, however love doesn't make arrogant buzzards who can't open up and tell someone how they feel. Don't make any drastic changes like moving in with him until your are sure what the circumstances really are between the 2 of you.
2006-10-20 16:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by sisshonuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to tell you that even though you two have been through so much he still loves you. I mean if you are questioning your love for one another, look at his actions and behavior, have they been really different lately. When he tells you he loves you is it with passion or not?
2006-10-20 18:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by hearts101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it and asking him what he means by what he said. If he doesn't act like he loves you then he probably doesn't but talk it over with him first.
2006-10-20 16:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something to hurt him? Did you cheat on him? Maybe think back to a time when maybe something you did hurt him and then ask him if that was it.
2006-10-20 16:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋