I've had a really bad day.full of tears....can anyone dry up my tears and cheer me up?

Question

I failed a test that would help me get a job, and found out that I might have to declare bankruptcy...I'm very worried, and could use a smile or laugh right now...:)

Answer 1

You are still a beautiful individual despite what happened and as long as you have the will, you will make it to where you want to be eventually. You have a good heart and people like you fail but you pick yourself up and get right back on track so I wish you the best and don't worry about what happened today...you will and you can succeed! Have a good night!

I hope I gave you some hope and at least made you smile...:)

Answer 2

Amanda,

We all have had these days. Don't let it get you down. Treat the failed test as a learning experience. I firmly believe that 'things happen for a reason'. So, keep your chin up,and don't look back, there is something better down the road for you! As for your debt.. I was there too. Use bankruptcy only as the very last resort. Talk to several 'Debt Reduction' specialists. You will be amazed the way they can help you become debt free within a very reasonable time span. Do a search on the internet, there are a ton of companies to check out. There is light at the end of the tunnel and good people to help get you there. You just have to do a little homework to find them. I hope this makes you feel a little better. Good Luck to you!

Answer 3

do you feel trapped? wow then we are on the same boat. If you don't tell us your problem then i wont be able to help you. A psychotherapist can help you a lot but i hear you, life is full of sh*t actually. I don't understand why anybody likes it so much, it is nothing but work and go home for more drama and all the chaos and suffering on this world, i don't know how people can sleep at night. but is either u do something about ur situation and help yourself and others or u cry and cry and your situation won't change. For example imagine this a kid who wants chocolate, he cries and cries you get that kid and pick him up and show him the bird through the window right? what happens? well, the kid stop crying and even start smiling a lot and pointing to the bird so happy :) did the situation change? did he get his chocolate? of course not but that is how he is now, happy even though he does not have his chocolate yet. On that mode, the kid can go back to do his homework so he can get his chocolate, if he would have continued crying he would have not done his homework and would have never gotten his chocolate. you are that kid, the kid crying = you being depressed the kid smiling = your positive attitude, change of environment, thinking on things u want (i think u need a psychoterapist for this) the chocolate = is what you want the bird is the mindset you need to accomplish homework = task or things u need to do to accomplish what u want or to ease the situation you are in

Answer 4

Oh dear sad one, many disappointments come to us in life. Often the hurt is so painful that even the angels cry for you. But, know this, one door may close, but another one will open. Clear your mind of the negatives. Search for the beauty around you. It is there. Don't be blind to it. Traumas may carry you into a darkness, but there is light. You will find this light and go forth stronger and with a surer step. You will find laughter and pleasure within your life. This is but a turn from a road strewn with obstacles. Once you leave this troublesome path, you can choose to follow a rainbow. Find wisdom from your mistakes. You are a beautiful child of God and He will see you through and help you recover. Trust in Him and yourself. You could use a smile? There are smiles surrounding you. Angels have shed tears for your sadness and now smile for your future because it will all work out.

Answer 5

Over 60% of Americans have declared bankruptcy at least once, so don't feel along on that one. Look at all the poor people in the third world countries and see what it's really like to have it hard.
Don't let nothing get you down...Be happy ..

Answer 6

I understand the strain of financial hardship. It takes a much higher toll than people realize. I could pray for you if you wanted. God has always taken care of me, even though at times it was harder to deal with than I would've wanted.

Something that helps me is to go somewhere else in my mind and think of a change I really want in my life; where I really want to be, and sometimes doing that will bring up a frest viewpoint for things. I've done that recently and I've realized some things I want to pursue that I hadn't thought of before. It made the world look like it was so full of possibilities.

But ultimately, God provides prosperity, so I'll pray if you want.

Answer 7

I don't know what kind of jokes you like, but this is a really stupid one......A duck walks into a bar & asks the bartender if he has any grapes. The bartender says no, & the duck walks out. The next day, the duck walks into the bar & asks the bartender if he has any grapes. He says NO! The third day the duck walks into the bar & asks the same question. The bartender says I told you no yesterday I told you no today & if you come in tomorrow, I'll nail your feet to the bar! The next day, the duck walks into the bar & asks, Do you have any nails? The bartender says no.....so the duck asks....Do you have any grapes?

Answer 8

Ok here is a joke or two.



Your momma's so fat I saw her in the carnival with a pig under her right arm. I asked her "Where did you get that pig?" And the pig said, I won her at a raffle.

Your momma's so ugly, she walked into a haunted house and came out with a job application.

Yo mama's so stupid she took toilet paper to a craps game.

Yo mama's so poor she used an ice cube for her air conditioner.

Yo mama's so fat it took 2 buses and a train to get to her good side.

Your mom's so stupid she got fired from an m&m factory for throwing out the w's.

Your dad is so ugly, he looked out his window and got arrested for mooning.

Answer 9

Have no worries. I know that tommorow will be a better day. So rest your eyes and dry your tears for the most wonderfull thing in the world, hope, is yours tonight. =). Things will get better, i know it.

Answer 10

dont worry honey everybody has a darkest days but everything passes and you will see life is beautifull dont be worry you gonna find out a better job sometimes when a door is close another window is open and is always for better dont worry just relax remember God is always close to you and humanity is beautiful, i love you and care for you even if i dont know you, just because you are human is enough for me to love and respect you.