I'm a 27 yr old female with no kids and I hate my boobs. I have with they call invert nipples and i am embarrased to show off my breasts because of them. What can I do to make myself feel more confindent about myself without spending a ton of money to go get surgry to get them pushed out?
2006-10-20 16:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by AA 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
But i'm a 46d so ppl stare at them and I'd like to show them off cause they are natural and big but I have no nipples
2006-10-20 16:27:40 · update #1
I have them too! I was so nervous to have sex with anyone,cause i was ashamed of my inverted nipples.Well turns out they are quite the entertainment! The first time my now husband and i had sex i said okey i have the weirdest thing with my nipples.So i know this sounds gross but he loves to suck them out and poke them back in.I guess its fun for him.He loves them.I am not some freaky sex crazed woman,i am a homemaker and mother of 6. You should not be embarassed at all,you are beautiful.. There is nothing wrong with you and you would never imagine how many women have them.Learn to love them and if you are confident then that will never even be noticed by anyone.
2006-10-20 16:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have stuff we don't like about our bodies (i think the nails on my big toes look wierd) but ultimately, you can't go 'fixing' everything that you precieve as a flaw. As soon as you 'fix' one thing there'll just be something else because nobody will ever be what they precieve as 'perfection' something like that will just snowball and never come to a satisfactory end.
For instance, picture the perfect apple, the form that appears in your mind when you think 'apple': symmetrical in shape, uniform in color, with the two perfect little leaves at the top like the pictures in storybooks from when you were a kid. Then go to the grocery store and try to find that apple. You won't be able to, because nature doesn't work like that. There will always be some characteristic that differentiates a real apple from the perfect mental form we have, because that form is really only an approxomation, and leaves out inconvienent details and is never really as complete as the real thing. What we precieve as 'flaws' in the apple are actually the things that make the apple real and complete, and not just a vaporous imaginary apple.
As far as inverted nipples themselves go, I googled around a bit and it doesn't look like they present much of a health risk. (of course i'm not a doctor, etc. etc.) From what I read it looks like the only downside would be a slight bit of difficulty breast-feeding and mixing bottles with the routine because the different shape might cause confusion.
When it comes to confidence, consider this: You are unique in that your nipples can do something that most women's don't. That difference makes you that much more special, unique, and interesting, not less.
2006-10-21 10:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nice breasts but I've gone my whole life without showing them off...why would you want to do that??? How much time do you think Mother Theresa, Coretta Scott King, or Condoleeza Rice have spent worrying about the appearance of their breasts? Do something with your life that makes you feel like you are a worthwhile person, and you won't be thinking so much about your breasts either. That is adolescent talk; at 27 you should be on to other things.
2006-10-20 23:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear lady, there is so much more to you than mammaries.
A relationship has to be built on who you are, not what kind of accessories you have. If you are a kind and caring person there are dozens of guys out there who would very much like to be good friends with you. Your apprehension about your appearance might be putting the dampers on your ability to make friends. You are afraid of being rejected later when HE finds out. If HE is that shallow, he doesn't deserve you.
If you consider that the average human spends 16 hours a day with their clothes on perhaps you will begin to put this into perspective. If you stop hating yourself for a little while maybe some guy will take notice of the inner person and like you no matter what. There are men who have had wives lose both breasts to surgery but they stay with them out of love. Maybe your slight invert has made you overly sensitive to how you look. After all it is the personality that truly matters. Breasts are only a mammary gland and our society has placed too much emphasis on that.
Now please stop worrying about that and go out there and make friends, life is too short to waste it moping.
I knew a girl in school who was so popular, and later on she got part of her face and arm burned in an accident. Everyone thought it would be the ruin of her but NO. She just went back to being herself and people accepted her as a person who had good character. She went to parties, made friends everywhere and eventually got married and now has three gorgeous kids who love her in spite of her burn scars. At least the part of you you are unhappy with is hidden, she can't hide her scars and yet she went on with her life.
Please stop worrying about something like that and be the best person you can be.
Wishing you the best................
2006-10-20 23:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Harley Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard anyone say I must, I must, I must increase my bust.......well I did and my gf's and I would do an I dream of Jeannie stance with arms crossed push hands towrds opposite elbow and you can feel that in your chest muscles......I wear DD and no I am not overweight......it can't hurt to try n it's free!
2006-10-20 23:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Audry....you are much more of a person than your boobs. I am sure you are an intelligent, sensitive woman with a lot to offer the world.
Boobs are second rate.
Fogettaboutit.
2006-10-20 23:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its who you are. Be proud of your body just the way it is. How would you like to end up like Michael Jackson??? The human body comes in all shapes and sizes Be thankful for your health!!!!
2006-10-20 23:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what I would do for huge boobs???? Be proud of them! Your nipples will come out when you have babies, you might lose your boobies at the same time!
2006-10-20 23:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor and see what he/she advises.
We are all unique, and none of us is perfect. One small part of your body does not define who YOU are. I know it's tough, especially if you're single and dating, but try to put it into perspective. Make a list of all your positive qualities, and compare that to one tiny physical flaw. If someone loves you, they love ALL of you, and they accept you as you are.
2006-10-20 23:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by dreamweaver.629ok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is born perfect,and as americans we think we should look like a centerfold,fooey.....if a man who cant accept me then fooey on him and if i cant accept my outer shell then i have a bigger problem..and i have more to work on far as behaivoral than the outside anyway
2006-10-20 23:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋