I mean have you met someone online who made you think........"this online crap is FOR REAL". And then found out.........its not. Lets hear it here.......OK.
2006-10-20 16:18:14 · 5 answers · asked by sqwirlsgirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyday just about,, the anonymity that on line interaction creates allows for many to only see a certain "perspective/side" of a person. I do nothing,, as it's all pretty FAKE, or at least circumspect. . It can be disappointing only if you put that much into it, and usually people who do, tend to lack judgment or use the internet to hide behind themselves. Plus the internet or whatever forum we are on, cant' be any indicator of how a person really is.. so you have to take it all with a grain of salt, and enjoy what is can be.
2006-10-20 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Manatee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Maybe this person you are talking about is and was a real friend to you... Maybe it just gets difficult to have a friendship so far away from each other and if it is worth the drama, you just have to know to treat it with extra special care and always even when irritated by this PERSON, let him/her know you are OK...
And just need a little space... Or will be out of touch for a while..
On line friendships can be difficult, but give this person the benefit of the doubt..
This post you made shows he/she is valuable to you... So it is up to you to determine just how or what you are willing to do to nurture it or let it go... :o)
Best wishes... I hope it all works out... And yes above all, enter with caution....
2006-10-20 17:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Always 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you shouldn't expect someone you meet online to be exactly the same in real life,afterall online is where you can be whomever you wish to be.And yes I have met people online whom I thought were fascinating and interesting to talk to only to find out that all that was only their online persona.who knows maybe deep down they are like that and just felt safer bringing those personaly traits online because afterall the person you talk to on the other end of the pc doesn't know anything about you in regards to how you look like,what type of environment you live in that sort of stuff.In the end needless to say it ended either with me or both of us loosing interest in talking to each other once we did meet face to face or just finding out we really didn't have that much in common to begin with.In the end you are dissapointed but half the time you still return to the pc because you think there is bound to be someone on here who truly is how they portray themselves to be,wether that's true or not i'm still figuring out.
2006-10-21 10:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nexus K 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sure, that's what happens with blind and online dates. i just shook it off and moved on. can't waste time worryin about it.
2006-10-20 16:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes
2006-10-20 16:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋