How do you feel about it?
2006-10-20 16:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Elisha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Hi! I a mother of a Down Syndrome child and I want to tell you that I love my son very much!!! He is the greatest thing that happened to me and I never regret of having him! You would be surprised that taking care of him is giving him all the love you can! Take things one at the time and you will bring him up perfectly. Join the support group and you will realise that you are not alone. The child's growth milestone will take a little bit longer and I suggest you to go to your local library and read about Down Syndrome. Whatever it is, it is not our fault and the child deserves every love and support from us, the parents.
Have your baby regular check-ups and please be don't be hard on the baby....
I am too an active volunteer in the Down Syndrome community and that really help you spiritually.....Good luck to your bundle of joy!!!
2006-10-20 18:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by jesse 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
While I am not a mother of a child with DS I am a sister of a child with DS. First you need a great support system. They are needed b/c you are going to need some you time. Even if it's just getting out and going to the store by yourself every once in a while. Keep in mind that there are also special programs designed for the development and special needs for you and your child. These programs teach you and your child how to get along better and help you to cope better with day to day task. PLEASE have pleanty of patience and remember while sometimes it may seem that they understand right from worng most of the time they don't. PLEASE try not to yell. scream, or hit the child. This will only teach them aggressiveness and in return they will hit you back and other people also. Try to remember GOD does not give a challenge to anyone that he does not think we can handle. Your reward will be great in heaven and don't wait on anyone to tell you good job, just know that you are a good parent and know the love you have for this child is far more greater than any love a parent could ever have for a child. If you are really serious about this and need someone to talk to then I can give you my mom's number and you two can talk . She loves talking to people about my sister and what you can do to help your child live the best normal life as possible. My mom's doctor told her my sister would not live to see the age of 5, nor would she walk or talk. My sister is now 34 and not only can she walk and talk but she also knows right from wrong and her colors and numbers and she loves to smile and she loves dance and sing and she enjoys music because my mmom taught her just like she told me and my brothers. Remember your child is still human a who has a mind, spirit and soul.
Many Blessings on your journey,
Mia
2006-10-20 16:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by NICK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I'm not a holy roller but i think that GOD gives you what you can handle!!! I have worked with a few kids at a YMCA that had down syndrome and they are the most loving and fun kids ever. The parents said the just stay very involved in many activities to keep there kids active.
I also tought artistic rollerskating for several years and I go to teach the kids from 2-6 years of age and I loved it. My goals are to own my own rink and I and going to take child development classes so I can have a special class for those with dissabilities.
But anyways good luck!!! Like I said GOD gives you what you can handle!!!! Good luck sweetie!!!
2006-10-20 16:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Little Boop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son with Down syndrome and he is the greatest gift I can imagine. I feel blessed. Is it always easy? No. But nothing in life is. We all have challenges. My son is strong, and bright, and an absolute joy. He had heart surgery at 2 months old and we haven't looked back...he just continues to amaze us.
2006-10-21 09:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Smom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not but I believe God gave them a special heart. Every one I have met has been so sweet and smiley and cute and seem to be so happy even when they are older. I think they are special and I know you are special for raising your child and not giving it up. I do however encourage you to get help when you need it. Use respite for a break if you don't have a supportive family to give you a break. You need time for you and your husband too if you have one or just for yourself. Depending on the degree that your child is you will need to plan ahead for socializing and teaching this child as much as it can learn. Good luck to you and I will pray for you.
2006-10-20 16:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not the parent of a child with Downs, but I am a family friend. Her name is mary and she must be about sixteen by now and she is a doll.
2006-10-20 16:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a parent of a child with ds. neither am i a parent.
but ive spent a lot of time volunteering with children with ds. and at times its going to be a very hard thing to deal with but i have to tell you, as a volunteer working with them, its the most rewarding feeling in the world and i plan on adopting a child with ds when i start having kids
2006-10-20 16:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by justine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Any child is a gift.....Down's children are so very happy and have a wonderful way of looking at the world - they stay innocent. My cousin has one and is doing so well in everything he does.... marvelous kid - smart, friendly, even is on stage..... don't underestimate anyone..... we ALL have gifts to bring to the table.
2006-10-20 16:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by longhats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry i am not but all i no is it takes a special person to raise such a special child i am not religeous (sp) or anything but that baby was given to you for a reason and i am sure you will make a great mum good luck to you and your baby.
2006-10-20 16:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by nomorebabieshaha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I be proud to have such a special child, they never loose their child like innocence. They never judge, and never find time to be angry. What more can you ask for???
2006-10-20 16:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋