If you are attractive, you don't have to be perfect or flawless with everything that you do to yourself, plus if you have a nice smile and great attitude that adds to the attractiveness--people will just compliment you on your hair, your face, your skin.....
2006-10-20 16:19:15
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answered by Anonymous
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It is not pressure it is my personal standards. I always try to look my very best at all times. I am disgusted when I see others in public looking terrible. If that's how they look in public I sure don't want to see them at home. I feel validated everytime I get a compliment. I am 46 and got a face lift last year. I never made it a secret. I plan to have more work done in the next few months. Am I vain? You better believe it.
2006-10-20 16:28:13
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answered by mary texas 4
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I think it depends on the effort the individual makes (whether attractive or non-attractive according to the popular social definition). If an individual goes through life giving careful, detailed attention and effort to their appearance - 2 hours to do their hair; 25-30 minutes of makeup application; dramatic emergency procedure for minor breakouts; desire for "style magazine" perfection - they will always set their goal to this unnatural bar of beauty to portray everyday. The supreme attention that one received from this is not only flattering, but it feeds the individual's confidence. They soon gain a false sense of confidence - confidence purely or mostly based on receiving praises and adoration from others.
I have a few friends who's contentment is measure by how much attention they receive out of the day. I know plenty of women who will immediately change their clothes if they find that the previous outfit, or hairdo, or make up did not bring to them their desired, ususal dose of attention.
They pressure themselves to look great 24/7. We all have natural beauty and can make ourselves look more attractive in various ways. When we are complimented, it should be appreciated with a thank you, but taken with a grain of salt...it should not brighten our day. What should brighten our day is when we get home, take off our clothes, take down our hair, wash off our makeup, walk close to a full body mirror, and we're able to look ourselves up and down and closely...and we say, "..just beautiful". That is the one compliment that your confidence should feed on..your own compliment to yourself.
The individual that is satisfied with natural or slightly accented beauty will not feel so pressured. Not dedicating so much time to vanity gives theimpression that your confidence is fed by YOU and not others.
I think that attractive people who feed on compliments do have too much pressure and will not take to aging easily. Those who do not feed on compliments, do not have too much pressure and will age gracefully...and aging gracefully make an individual even more attractive.
Please keep in mind that is my just my opinion about SOME attractive people and what I have observed by my own experience.
2006-10-20 16:43:43
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answered by wearyblossom 2
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Attraction can be a deadly trap. Naturally attactive looks are a blessing from God and should not become an issue of vanity. One with such a blessing can be drawn into the egotistic or narcisstic darkness when their focus becomes so dedicated as to how others perceive them. Beauty is from within also. The combination of the two...attractiveness and spiritual beauty are to be appreciated.
2006-10-20 16:22:24
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answered by Will Try 2
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if they r popular i would guess so, on the other hand they might be confident enough not have to worry to much because everybody compliments them all the time, and the feel ok with their natural beauty, whereas ppl who arent as often complimented or noted for their looks, may always be trying to "improve"
2006-10-20 16:22:08
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answered by 4theband 2
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Yeah, I think they do. But they should know that if they are naturally attractive, they don't have work hard to maintain their good looks.
:-)
2006-10-20 16:17:00
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answered by Anonymous
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I know a lot of attractive people (especially men) who don't give a sh** about it..
And YES i think women are usually more worried about their look.
2006-10-20 16:20:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Some people have natural beauty that takes little effort.
2006-10-20 16:20:20
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answered by SatinDoll1976 3
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no they choose to be that way some people are very shallow if they focused on other things in life besides themselves we would have a very different world
2006-10-20 16:19:40
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answered by debra o 2
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Yes,they are always sweating and my stink.Just show people not only your sport, but your persinality.
2006-10-20 16:20:48
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answered by leecymeow 3
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