Has anyone seen this and does anyone know what's wrong with her. Weve been divorced for two years.
2006-10-20 16:07:58 · 23 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She misses you and doesn't want to see you happy without her. Oh well, she missed out, so ignore her. Her mission is to see you miserable....so smile and be happy that you're not with the crazy b*tch.
2006-10-20 16:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who initiated the divorce?
It could be that she's not over you, and hates the fact that you've moved on. People can do some pretty crazy things when they're hurt.
Did you ever re-marry? Or, do you have a new girlfriend now? Because I've known of quite a few people that seem like they're completely over their ex, but as soon as they see the ex with someone else, they lose it.
If these things she's doing get too out-of-hand, there's always a restraining order.
2006-10-20 23:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got some unresolved issues. They can drive a woman crazy, especially if there are some jagged edges left over from the divorce. If she is lucid and you can occasionally talk friendly, see if you can help her bring her feelings to cloture. You know what would work best, so tailor it how you can. You probably have a clue as to why she's still living in the past and trying to hurt you. Help her get over you and move on with your lives and this hurtful stuff will stop. Good luck.
2006-10-20 23:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be anything, really - but I believe the world is but a reflection of our inner thoughts and expectations. Has something happened lately? Did you start to date? Are you afraid it will hurt her or make her bitchy?
I would expect her to be terrific. When she is bitchy, be surprised and ask her what is wrong, because it's not like her. Maybe she started birth control and that is causing mood swings. Maybe she is having a lot of stress at work. Maybe she doesn't understand why she is supposed to be nice to you after 2 years of divorce. What ever the excuse, I think the reason is that you are expecting her to be so.
Peace!
2006-10-20 23:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What things is she doing? Do you guys have kids together? She is probably bitter and still wants to be with you but because she knows that this will not happen, she will do just about anything to make sure that you are not happy. Be very careful around her and if it gets dangerous you might want to get a restraining order or have someone intervene in the situation.
2006-10-20 23:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may still have feelings for you and is still hurt from the divorce. You know the old saying “misery loves company”. This is assuming of course that she does not have any mental problems to cause this (depression, anxiety problems and the like).
2006-10-20 23:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because she is still in love with you and is trying to get your attention even if it is in a negative way. She probably thinks if she tells you how she really feels about you that you will just turn her away. This way, hurting you, gets your attention. Sick, I know, but I've seen it before.
2006-10-21 02:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do things that are hurtful just by accident, not your fault, don't worry about it.
If you do it on purpose, burn in hell.
A very small distinction I know, important one though. I just feel what I feel and be honest about it.
With everybody involved. Hurtful but less hurtful. The women in my life know about each other, nothing hidden yet anyway. Best that way.
2006-10-20 23:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, do you have children with her? i never could understand why ex's act that way, no need in it, they just cant seem to get their own life together, their so caught up in their own misserie, its sad, i bet she doesnt want you but she doesnt want anyone else to have you either? You have a new woman in you life dont you? I can tell you, she will only do things that you allow her to do....Dont take any uncalled for crap from her, your gonna have to put your foot down, and make her stop.
2006-10-20 23:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still in love with you. I'm assuming that you don't want to be with her so she is trying to hurt you to get back at you.
2006-10-20 23:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋