I am in 9th grade and my friend that is in the same grade has a friend in 7th grade. I dont really like the girl in 7th grade and when ever she is with my friend in 9th grade she does not talk to me and i just sit there all by myself. I told her a lot that i do not like that and she does not listen. What should i so?
2006-10-20 16:01:56 · 11 answers · asked by Allison J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really feel for you. I had a similar situation in gradeschool. Three of us were friends in 7th grade. You know how the saying goes, "Three is a crowd?" Well, one of us 3 was new to the school. She started a rumor amongst us saying that the other called me a *****! It was weird, coz she told me this during lunch period (we had a choice to stay for lunch or go home-she normally went home, but this time, as if planned, she stayed for lunch). Then all through the lunch period before classes resumed, she said that we should ignored the said betrayor of our group. Unfortunately for me, she ended up "stealing" the other friend I had a good relationship with and then the two of them started to ignore me. It was good that you approached your friend. I was too downtrodden to even speak. I was very depressed the last 2 years of gradeschool....Time heals wounds. Years later, I think she realized what she had done....We started a new friendship and now I'm the godmother of her youngest daughter....Not to say a happy ending might come of your situation, but I am hoping for the best. Good luck with how you deal with the situation. Things happen for a reason I suppose. I guess what I learned is that one should never take a friend for granted. And I hope your friend will learn the same!
2006-10-20 16:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by charlielikespeanutbutter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be the girl in 7th grade friend and tell ur 9th grade cuz shell understand
2006-10-20 23:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can kind of relate to what you are talkin about, because my best friend does the same thing to me except, she does it with her boyfriend. Really the only thing I can tell you to do is when you're by yourself that's the time to sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and ask her why she doesn't listen to you when you're trying to tell her things that are really bothering you.But if that doesn't work then maybe ya'll friendship wasn't meant to be.
2006-10-20 23:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the choice of loosing your 9th grade friend, if you do the her or me thing, so I suggest that you start making a bigger circle of friends, and remember next year is high school and that is a whole different world
2006-10-20 23:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing u can do is talk to ur friend tell her how u feel, and if she doesn't listen shes not a true friend.
2006-10-20 23:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by m.shadows 4 life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me- you must be positve thinker and be optimistic, because it is really possible that your friend may find another friend. The best thing to do is make friend with your friend's friend. don't hate! Be friendly so that the 3 of you will be happy together without any jealous and envy matter....
2006-10-20 23:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your going threw.....dont talk to her...because when your always there ..she'll never respect you...start hangin out with other friends , make her jealous..or let her feel what she's missing by ignoring you...because she doesnt deserve you .if she does that........learn to love yourself a bit more if anbody doesnt respect you...then dont bother talking to them.................the key word is R-E-S-E-P-C-T that my motto
2006-10-20 23:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by pretty in pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her one on one and tell her how you're feeling.
2006-10-20 23:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really rude of that one girl to do to you. You didn't even do anything to her. I think she is probably jealous.
2006-10-20 23:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by i_latortue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE HER BAC AND TELL UR FRIEND THAT I HATE HER AND STEAL UR FRIEND ALWAYS CURLY UR ARMS AROUND HER ALWAYS HANG OUT AND TELL UR FAKE FRIEND THT WE DID ALOT OF FUN THINGSZ
2006-10-20 23:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by ;p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋