I am 12 yo. In my school many girls used to kick boys in the balls for fun and the boys never ever hit back! I can not understand why the boys did nothing, if they hit back that sh*it would stop fast. The girls that used to do it know that it hurts like hell, they know that can stop them from having babies, and they know that the boys feel abused, but they do it anyway and not only they thik is funny but I suspect they also get some kind of sexual satisfaction! And most of the girls that don’t do it think its funny and laugh at the poor boys when it happens, and that makes me mad!
Last week a boy got kneed in the cafeteria and threw up, he just walked away!!!
I could not take it anymore so I told what she did and what was going on in the school to the Principal and then to my parents. She got expelled; and all the girls where told in private that they should use that only on emergencies and that they will get punished if they do it differently.
2006-10-20 16:01:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Now girls that I don’t even know are calling me a “rat” and even “traitor”(lol!).
I am not very popular among the girls now, but I noticed that I am becoming popular among boys :-)(that was not the reason I did it). My best friends support me, and I would do it again. I did wrong? If so, WHY? WHY? WHY?
2006-10-20 16:01:32 · update #1
You did the right thing, it is never a good thing to hurt someone else just because you can. I am sure some of these boys future wives will want to thank you. Be proud that you stood up when no one else would and that you had enough courage to do the right thing. If other girls don't like it tough, if they are your friend then stopping the torture wont matter them, if some of them claimed to be your friend but claim to dislike you now that you have stopped thier fun then they were not good friends to have anyway. Never be afraid to speak up for those who can't or are too embarrassed especially if you know that it is something so wrong. I say good for you, you are on your way to becoming a beautiful young woman who shows compassion for her peers no matter what adversity may come from your action.
Blessed Be.
2006-10-20 16:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by ginwill1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were right in what you did. Yes, people are going to say that boys don't hit back because it was a girl who hurt them but when the boys are in pain they can barely move. It is an AWFUL pain and they feel it for a while. I am sure that if the boys could fight back then and there they would. But don't worry, you did do the right thing and hopefully such a terrible thing will stop. Don't let what the other girls say make you mad or feel guilty. They were having their fun at someone else's expense and it was wrong. If they taunt you just report them and stay away from them as much as possible.
2006-10-20 16:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by dahnnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, im 19 yrs old, and i agree, you DID NOT do wrong... the other girls are just mad at you because you stopped what they call "fun", you did the right thing by telling, why the boys didn't i do not know, but according to guys, it hurts alot... so don't worry about them, and i got called a rat back in school, too... like i said, don't worry about the girls, if they give you too much trouble, tell the principal, or your parents... as for the boys, i am sure they are just thankful that you stood up for them when they themselves should have, so you did the right thing... don't worry...
2006-10-20 16:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You did good. Sometimes it is hard to understand why, when you do good things it feels wrong. Being a RAT in some situations may be wrong but not this one. You were smart enough to see that these actions were wrong and could have done great harm. I congratulate you for standing up for what was right. The people who may not like you now are immature and not worthy of your friendship. Keep up the good work..
2006-10-20 16:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did not do anything wrong! what you did was a good thing they don't understand what there doing is wrong and immature! so what if they don't like you! you sound way more mature then them! and your best friend does as well so you have each other !2 hell with what the others say they need 2 grow up! so dont let it bother you! and don't let them know that it bothers you! you did nothing wrong and it was the right thing to do and I'm sure the boys appreciate it as well!
2006-10-20 16:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not do wrong. Your so called friedns are very wrong and should all be punished for doing this. They could severly hurt one of the boys for life. Why don't they hit back? Boys are not to hit girls. If they did your so called friends would stop very quickly. A boy is much stronger then a girl and one punch could knock them out or severly hurt them. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!
2006-10-20 16:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by rabatvilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kicking boys in the privates just for the fun of it is cruel and selfish. It does not prevent the boys from making babies, but it does hurt like hell for a while. You did the right thing. Kicking like that is a move that should only be used in an emergency.
The boys probably don't fight back because they have been taught by their parents that it's bad to hurt girls (even if they deserve it!).
2006-10-20 16:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For a 12 year old, you have a very good head on your shoulders.
They say what goes around comes around and those girls will get theirs. There is going to be a day when they kick the wrong person and who knows what could happen to them, Rape, Abused, Killed even!
In this era that we live in, its just not safe anymore for you young girls and I commend you for not getting involved in stupid, hurtful and harmful games these girls are playing, no matter how funny they think it is!!
2006-10-20 16:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And we wonder why kids in schools are getting blown away from frustrated boys with guns?
No you have not done anything wrong. You are an honest person. You are a Tzzadik & that can be a lonely but worthwhile road.
Wishing you the best,
2006-10-20 16:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one percent right and I am truly sorry to hear how much you are suffering. I went through something similar situation for standing up and telling the truth of what was going on in the hospital for the safety of others, and it cost my job. One thing I can tell you, if I was put in that situation again, I would still do the exact same thing because I know it is the right thing to do and I can live with myself.
2006-10-20 16:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋