I've studyed dreams, I just want others opion. All the dreams are happy dreams. We don't have sex in all of them. Sometimes my husbands in them, sometimes he's not. In the dreams, alot of the time we're just hanging out, or we live together, or he tells me he loves me. Just good happy stuff. We had an argument in one though. I wake up feeling refreshed & happy. But then I see my husband beside me & I feel guilty. In real life my husbands best friend & I are are close. We get along very well. He does stay with us sometimes.We're friends. He understands me & I him.We all hang out alot. In privite conversation, we have, when feeling ugly, reasured the other that their cute. Also...what does him (the best friend) saying to my husband that I'm mom material & I'm something to write home about mean? I asked him why he said that (in priviate) & he said cause its true. But he won't tell me what it means.If it matters I'm an aries/tarus. Hubbys a capricorn, the best friend is a libra.
2006-10-20 15:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by prepishippie 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Nope..its heathly to have fantasy..it just means you want to get laid..use the energy out on your man instead ..he will think its all about him and you will get kudo points
2006-10-20 16:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Several things or ideas come to mind as you speak. First, there is attraction between you and "the best friend." Nothing unusual about that attraction. Man and Woman = attraction. For example, a woman shape as you know is attractive to a man even when it is a family member or wife or a friend. That is normal.
However, lots of people feel guilty about the attraction and just don't ask anyone about it for fear of being embarrassed. This is a mistake. If you have the need, you or anyone should see a professional about it. They can explain the situation in five minutes to your satisfaction.
The first time I felt stimulated by my beautiful young daughter sitting on my lap was difficult, but it did not take me long to figure out to move the child to a more appropriate position while she sat on my lap. Many men unfortunately feel really very strange and forever avoid their daughters normal touch for fear that he may have those feelings again.
I realize this is not what you were asking about exactly, but it is important and related. Many fathers and daughters relationships are damaged by this experience.
The fact is, human history is written in the human genes, and it is all still there, and part of it is mixed feelings around sex and inappropriate sex attractions. There is just a different way or role to interrupt and make it part of a lasting and proper relationship.
It is good to recognize and appreciate your child's sexuality or a friends opposite sexuality without more than a silent mutual
understanding and even a recognition of the event, but don't spoil it.
Sex does make the world go round in more than one way!
2006-10-20 19:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Prepiship, Mom material means that you would be an excellent mom and Something to write home about means when a gent has a new girlfriend and he gets excited cause he knows in his heart that she is the one he wants to spend his life with. I think that you need to lessen your dreams about this friend though. And the reason why i say that is because i am looking at what you have stated in your comments which is that you sometimes have sex with this friend in your dreams, wake up feeling refreshed and happy and then you feel guilty when you see your husband laying by your side. The questions to ask yourself is ,,,,Are you feeling Infatuated love for this friend or are you really falling in love with him? Try just spending more time with your husband and remember his softness and love for you. This is a very sensitive subject,,,,,i wish you luck. Take care.
2006-10-20 16:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just having some regressions of the life you had before you were in the flesh. Everyone we know in this life is pretty much everyone we have always known from the other side. Occasionally we choose to be around people we are not familiar with to fulfill out a karmic debt but this is the exception not the rule. All your guilt will not change anything so why let it bother so much? Dreams are meant to aid us in the here and now.
2006-10-20 16:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
.you have no business having these private conversations,it sounds like your husbands friend might be a little competitive and flirts with you and your EGO is eating it up,You have to be stronger than that,If you feel guilty having dreams ,think how guilty you would feel acting on it. Your getting to close to this friend and your going to destroy your partnership and your reputation as good mommy material your wedding ring should be a symbol of the ring of protection you keep around your marriage,there should be no private conversation with any man except family.a good way to know if your betraying your husband is to ask yourself if you would say or do these things in front of him.stay within the sacred ring and you'll be guilt free.
2006-10-20 18:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by reading over what you wrote, it sounds to me like you would rather be with his best friend and that you don't really have that much in common with your husband.
2014-06-14 00:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Multi Mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the best friend has a little crush on you and you are picking up on his vibe. not that you may want to act on it. but knowing he has a thing for you may trigger the mind to dream. and remember our dreams are just that dreams. we can not control what or who we dream about. if we could then i would hit the lottery every night. so unless there is something else to feel guilty about then you should not. best of luck. and happy dreams.
2006-10-20 16:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by gascitycpl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you thought that dream was okay, nothing wrong with it, clear concience, ect. you wouldn't be asking anyone on this site. But the truth is, only you "can" answer that. Look in the mirror, and ask yourself what you've asked us, and be completely honest with you, and you'll get your answer. Good luck.
2006-10-20 17:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think about why you wrote a paragraph about the best friend but nothing about your husband.
2006-10-20 16:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by pattycake 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-22 04:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋