My husband got the divorce papers in the mail, and he's devastated. I told him I was going to do it, but I guess he didn't think I would... Now I'm just sad. ... Glad it's finally over with, but it sucks.
2006-10-20 15:55:24 · 27 answers · asked by IWantToKnow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The other day we went to this resteraunt and one of my twins 6 years went to the restroom and he started singing really loud to the music...everyone could hear him out in the lobby and where laughing. I looked at my fiance and said go get him, he opened the door and I heard my little one yell....theres music in here...GET DOWN and BOOOGIE! as he was boogying ...Gotta love kids.
2006-10-20 16:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, congratulations are in order. I've struggled for years to make that decision have have stayed in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship because of my inaction. You right, it does suck. No one wants to hurt someone they've been married to despite the reason for divorce. I'll skip all the cliche's about being better off, starting over and leave you with the cleanest dirty joke I know. And for the record, a little old lady told me this one, which I think makes it funnier....
What do women and spaghetti have in common???
They both wiggle when you eat them.
Did you laugh, groan or smirk? Keep your chin up kiddo, every day will get easier.
2006-10-20 23:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all; I would like to say hang in there. It will get better.
I have a 2 year old grandson who I was watching late yesterday afternoon. It was a dreary damp day outside but it was only a mist rain. Anyway, we made it through supper but the power went out and come to find out the whole town was blacked out except for downtown. I took his hand and led him outside because I told him it was spooky inside. I had him again this afternoon. Out of the blue he looked at me and told me not pooky. But, he ran into the bedroom which was dark and started hollering that it was pooky.
2006-10-20 23:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Merilee L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your day but I just got a great rate on my car insurance.
Now for the serious advice. You served papers for a reason, and whatever that reason is YOU did it and now it is time to prepare for your future. Get the book "How to survive the loss of a love" read it and then start to pack up all the bad things and throw them out to make room for the brighter future.
Best of luck!
2006-10-20 22:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did what you had to do! Watch a doog comedy movie, or go and hang out with some of your girl friends and you might feel better. Divorce is really never a good thing, but get out with happy people - happiness just seems to rub off on some people!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-20 22:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that when you end a marriage, it's hard because all of yourself that you have invested. It was intended to be forever but now you know it wasn't meant to be. You probably feel bad because you thought maybe you didn't put in enough. I don't even know you but I can tell you that you did give it your all because the way you described just how you feel. Just know that this is one chapter ending in your life. Close it out and start another one.
We all have someone we are meant to be with, don't feel like that you hit a dead end, KNOW that you have decided to take the road that will lead you to happiness.
GOOD LUCK AND I WISH YOU WELL.
2006-10-20 23:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life goes on baby girl, you'll get over it, your not feeling anything that any other divorced person hasnt felt. i think its probably the idea of being without that person that you have to get used to, and the thought of a new life, but you do eventually. One day, you'll say "what did i make such a big fuss for?" Be strong......
2006-10-20 23:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to have a crappy day please. When you destroy someone else's life try not to be happy.
But seriously, I don't know what your situation is....
I like to assume most marriages can be saved if both parties work together and cut out the selfish BS.
The fact that you feel guilty could be an indication there is something left to fight for.
2006-10-20 23:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by HonestGuy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the rest of your life to live. Start fresh and find the right one for you. Apparently it wasn't working out and bad enough that you took the big step. Don't look back and enjoy what your didn't before.
2006-10-21 01:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by robug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what happened to me today?! In front of everybody I was going down the stairs at our school and I fell flat on my butt and bumped all the down with my skirt flying straight up! How embarresing and kinda funny!
Sorry about your situation thought =(
=)
2006-10-20 22:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋