Have you ever been jealous of a friend because you were trying to get pregnant and they werent but they got preg. first?
2006-10-20 15:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by KIrvin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
yeah thats the same thing i been trying for a year and 3months my friend has only been trying 3months and got pregnant and shes currently 8wks...and im so jealous she like oooh im sooo sick and im starting to sho blah blah blah,i try not to be imture and be happy for her but i think most of all all my jealousy comes from being hurt,that im not pregnant yet if u have messenger IM me at xxxbabygurl954xxx
2006-10-20 15:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ALL THE TIME!!!!! It is so hard on me that I totally avoid anyone that is pregnant. I know it's bad and selfish but I sit and cry constantly when I hear someone else is pregnant. I always ask, Why them and not me? My friends (thank god) understand how hard it is on me so they don't take it personally. They know that after the baby is born that I will be there for them. It's just during the pregnancy that I can't handle it. Don't beat yourself up over it. It's perfectly normal to feel this way. And those that don't understand aren't truly your friends anyways.
2006-10-20 22:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by tammybaby67 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me for years! I swore that if one more person I knew said something like, "I didn't even want to get pregnant, but all he has to do is look at me and I'm knocked up!" I was going to go insane. Some people are incredibly insensitive (though maybe you haven't told many people that you are ttc) and fertility is seen by some women as proof that they are 'better' than other women. Whatever. Hang in there -- there are lots of ways to become a mother! :)
2006-10-21 06:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a sister-in-law that has had 3 m/c. She was pregnant again and then I got pregnant. She was told that she lost the baby. When I told her that I was pregnant, she threw the biggest fit. She was so mad that she told my brother not to talk to me. Well, she found out that that the baby was alive and then she started talking to me. When I went in for my ultra sound, they told me the sex (boy). when she went in, they couldn't tell the sex and she was mad again. Then when she finally found out she was having a girl, she was mad at me again that I was having a boy.
I have never been mad at a friend because of that.
2006-10-21 01:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - trying to conceive can be a stressful time and it's hard if you're having difficulty and others aren't. It's totally normal and common to feel that way. Don't beat yourself up about it - just give your self whatever space you need.
2006-10-20 22:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, an idiot that I know who shall remain nameless got pregnant by a guy who couldn't even marry her because he was already married and here I was, married for several years, WAITING PATIENTLY for a child...
I had a complete fit when I found out.
2006-10-20 22:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Elaura 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its human to be jealous of others at times.
2006-10-20 22:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup but you gotta be there for them and take it one day at a time cuz you're time will come
2006-10-20 22:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by beautyj24 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is a waist of energy.
2006-10-20 23:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LORD NO!!!!!
2006-10-20 22:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋