In 5 years i have never been away from my husband for more than a night. I miss him so much. Hes been gone since Thursday and wont be home until Monday. Am i that pathetic??? I miss him so much, i cant stop crying, i couldnt sleep lastnight and i just want him here with me. Whats wrong with me, why cant i just get through this at not be such a big baby. Hes my best friend we spend every evening together. and now im taking care of the kids, alone, going to be by myself. I just miss him so very much and i cant stop crying. Ive been holding his shirt since yeasterday evening :(
2006-10-20 15:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by jess_n_flip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just miss him so much, i feel like i shouldnt be acting like this. My kids cant see me crying, i have tears running down my face and i cant stop. Hes 3,000 miles away helping his mom, sister and brother. I get to talk to him once in awhile but that doesnt help, hearing his voice just makes me wanna cry even more! This really does suck. We just moved here too so i dont know ANYONE! just me and the boys i guess :(
2006-10-20 15:56:11 · update #1
Awww it's ok your not pathetic. Just shows how much you love him. My dad use to be a truck driver and my mom always slept with one of his shirts. I think it's sweet. Just hang in there he will be home before you know it. Maybe find something fun to do with your kids this week to help take your mind off it. Like a trip to the park, the zoo, or a movie.
2006-10-20 15:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is away because it is business and there was no other choice (for instance, you could not go because of commitments, or something otherwise). I would suggest you keep yourself busy, write little special notes to him every day to give him when returns (telling how much you miss him). If its not an interruption in his schedule, phone him every evening and let him know you miss him. On the day of his return, buy him flowers! Prepare him his favorite meal or go your your favorite restaurant! Missing him is a normal human feeling. Sleep on his pillow! GOOD LUCK Honey!
2006-10-20 22:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you I'm sure if he new that you where cryin cause he was gone he would know u luv so and it's perfectly normal not to like sleeping in a cold lonely bed and if u think of good times with him when your feeling reely alone it will help and chear up he'll be home soon and I bet he misses you just the same
2006-10-20 22:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by revsmithyiii 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aaahhh. That is so cute and too sweet. You miss your boo-boo. My advice - hang out with some girlfriends, go shoppinh, get a pedicure/manicure, ig you have kids, spend time with them. Don't just sit around and mope.
Do something to make the time go by faster. Monday will be here sooner then you know it.
2006-10-20 22:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that its completly normal to miss someone that u love.its like not having a part of u when they are not by your side try going out and having a good time with the girls. take the kids to the park or something ur thinking too much. give him a call tell him u love him. is there other reasons to y you seem so upset that he is not there?
2006-10-20 22:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, where were you when I was looking! The fellow has a queen as a partner. Perfectly normal reaction by a person who loves her spouse. I envy the man.
He must treat you like you are the last women on the planet. I believe he will be in heap of trouble upon his return. You get my meaning (-:
2006-10-20 22:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok. My husband and I have been married for 5yrs. and we have had to be apart for months at a time (he was in the military). and I would cry for hrs and I would sleep with his sweatshirt that smelled like him. I learned to deal. but Now when he just goes over night like camping or something I just cry all over again. I try to focus on the kids but it doesn't help.
2006-10-20 22:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by cc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are surely melancholic person ma'am, so do I. I think you better find your friends and chat with them, or find some rush. Or you can make up friends with your child.
I know that you love your husband very much. But remember, there is not only your husband in this world.
2006-10-20 23:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rabbit-X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww :( im so sorry about that hun.i feels like that with my fiance,we have been together 1and 8months and getting married next year but im a christion so that we dont sleep together but i do miss him and i know he leaves on the north side of me girl i cry and i hold hes shirt to.i have a red shirt from my finace and i wear it all the time,but girl im like you so i think we can be in a club together.
2006-10-20 22:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not pathetic you are in love at one time i felt the same way about my husband but that was cheatings[on his part]and 17 years ago i wish i could feel that way again
2006-10-20 22:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by angela b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋