Do you stop talking to each other until one of you cool off, or do you try and settle it right then? I'm curious because I always want to talk things out, but my best friend walks away sometimes saying nothing. Thanks, and have a great weekend. :)
2006-10-20 15:32:01 · 10 answers · asked by Whatever! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I like to settle it right upfront too, I'm stuck on the whole dont go to bed mad theroy I guess. Realize that some friends are more sensitve than others so you have to take that into consideration. Sometimes its easier to walk away then to say something that you know you will regret later. It's like when your parents tell you if you dont have anything nice to say, say nothing at all. I say value your friendships knowing that you will have disagreements, just dont let them comsume you. Sometimes you have to be the bigger friend and just say I'm sorry.
2006-10-21 02:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bit of both, if its in person we just fold our arms and look away but then she usaully calls me a baby and i get over it. but if its over the phone or through IM we get off the phone or IM untill the next day when were cooled off and we act like nothing happened and laugh about it if it ever comes up again. If its a serious arguement we talk it out. shes sucha girl.
2006-10-20 15:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your emotions cool, sleep it off, and give him/her time to cool off as well. I've tried to force settlements and lost friends doing so. Give yourself time to cool off and think about the situation with a clear mind.
2006-10-20 15:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kristina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to straighten things out right after an argument happens.
2006-10-20 15:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by prcsdime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend got the right thought--walk don't talk.
you can learn a lot with your mouth shut.
two ears to listen twice as much as talk.
silent and listen same six letters--
so be silent and listen.
2006-10-20 15:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of like your friend, and my best friend is like you. You just have to strike a compromise. You may have to wait longer than you want to ...and she may end up talking sooner than she wants to. That's just life.
2006-10-20 15:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by retorik75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ignore each other til she gets her head out of her @$$. Sometimes we don't talk for months!!!
2006-10-20 15:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we always talk things out, yes does take time
2006-10-20 15:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by justmejimw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are real good friends just be the first to say sorry. it will make it better and be forgotton by next wk.
2006-10-20 15:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by KIrvin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we settle it out, other wise the distant will just grow♥
2006-10-20 15:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋