2006-10-20 15:22:37 · 6 answers · asked by robin w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is complicated. It has many fine details like truth, commitment, pleasing your partner, and lots of humility. Love is unpredictable: you never know what will happen. This can be a bad as well as a good thing because it may end up being hurt when you are looking for love, but the hurt doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger. It helps you to develop into the person that you are. Even though it may be painful to take that rick, it is a risk that everyone should take, because everybody needs love.
2006-10-20 15:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by poetrywritr111490 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people don't really learn how to love. They confuse the word love with passion and other things. But true love is to be giving and to accept the other person unconditionally. The joy of love is to give, the more you give the more you get. Some people grow up in dysfunctional families and therefore they don't learn how to relate to others, no wonder love is so cheap today, not written in stone anymore.
But love, when real and commited is the most beautiful thing that may ever happen to a human being. It is something that fulfills your soul and your life.
To really love someone, do not give up on your life for him or for her. Just add and try not to be too demanding. Don't live your life based on what you will be getting from the one you love. But live your life as your life and his life were two parallel lines, working together, hoping together, crying together, laughing together.
Love does not hurt, love is gentle and kind as the Bible says.
I still am looking for true love. I have experienced some time in the past. But he went away and I am still waiting for him to come back into my life. I re-married but I never found happiness as I found with him. We did not know how to love, though. We both grew up in dysfunctional families. We lost one another but we still love each other dearly. He fears meeting me again but I know will see him someday. All that I told you is what I want for myself and for him. That's why I am telling you so: we love, but to relate is an art. Only love alone is not enough. You have to learn how to KEEP THIS LOVE in your life. Sorry if I talked too much. I also was venting.
Good luck and God bless.
source: my life.
2006-10-20 22:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people try so hard to figure it out. See love isnt confusing people are confusing. What is so great about love is that when you find it you know. Because its not confusing or painful its simple.
2006-10-20 22:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by bj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its one of the few things that you feel with your heart gut and mind and its the one thing that everybody wants a happy ending too. and love can be given and received in so many ways it makes it difficult but in love there are either 2 winners or none.
2006-10-20 22:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by the shadow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is confusing isn't it? but you know it is also full of mystery too , you never know what is in store for you. love has alot more on the postive side than the negitive side. but if you are feeling negitive , you will look at it in a neg. manner.
2006-10-20 22:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freud once said "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar," perhaps you should look at love the same way.
2006-10-20 22:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by cancerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋