nothing good ever happens in my life not even little things this bothers me cause I always try to do the right thing and be kind to others why do nice guys always get screwed
2006-10-20 15:20:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I ask about god cause of things going on that I asked him for help with and it seems like he made it as bad as possible for me if you want specs email me at revsmithyiii@yahoo.com serios people only please I could use some help thanx
2006-10-20 16:31:34 · update #1
god loves us all, and sometimes like the father he is, he will deny us a relationship that will hurt us. you need to find a nice girl, perhaps your looking in all the wrong places, or at the wrong type of women. has nothing to do with god, it has everything to do with our choices.
2006-10-20 15:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the test. Be good to others no matter what happens to you. We are sometimes entertainment to God or the Gods, or whatever you believe in. Some of the things that happen to us, you've just gotta imagine somebody, if they can see us, laughing all the time at what we do. I think this world is run by someone with a sick sense of humor, and if you don't have one you won't fit in very well or be able to relate as well. Get a little bit of one and see what happens. Relax and don't worry so much. I'm a nice guy and I don't often get screwed. Sometimes a good thing, sometimes not so good.
2006-10-20 22:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When adage "nice guys finish last" seems to be in play in our lives, take a closer look. Sometimes it seems everything is going wrong because we are focused of the wrong things. When we want ice cream and get a ham sandwich we think about what we didn't get and seldom consider that millions of people would be overjoyed just to have anything to eat. So sit down and write a list of all the things you have. It might be hard at first but even right down silly things, count the socks in your drawer, number how many people smiled at you, once you get into it, it's kind of fun to discover how many ways God showed you He loved you today. Some of the biggest blessings come from the smallest things.
2006-10-20 22:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a Virgo (???)...
I feel ya bro. But why ask why? when It is what it is!?
But- luck and fortune go hand in hand... Keep a positive mindset, because negativity festers, then attracts. Ever hear the phrase misery loves company??? now meditate on that for a moment... Anyhow, Just keep this in mind...
REALLY!! Keep this in mind! Positive thoughts, yeild positive results... FOCUS your energies toward... positives!
...Now if your talking chicks (??)... Thats a whole different program! You gotta learn to be indifferent with them man, they'll take advantage of that nice guy crap everytime. Stop being so sensitive. Stand up and be a man! Chicks dig that macho stuff... and whats more macho than not giving a wut?? You can always get another one... (*the sensitive stuff only works to KEEP em hooked)... But the macho stuff seals the deal!.
Good Luck, Or should I say good fortune...
I'll let you decide.
and one more thing... Stop blaming all of your problems on God. Thats not a good look for you... Makes you sound like your whining. (sorry, just being honest)
2006-10-20 22:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kontra~Diction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be at least one positive aspect in your life... And if there isn't, go find one. Even just picking up a hobby you've always found interesting. Once you know there's something good, you will quit focusing so much on the bad. It will cease eventually, good things will follow.
2006-10-20 22:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God doesnt hate you, hes in you and shows himself to others through you
nice guys get screwed because God is testing their faith to see if they will stop doing nice things because its pointless or to see if they will continue to do nice things even if they get hurt or something to see if they are following Jesus's footsteps of humility, suffering and helpfulness since afterall, we r supposed to be as close to Christ as possible
keep doing the right thing, your reward wont be on earth, only in heaven and it will be great
2006-10-20 22:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hippy of 21st Century - Jargouss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not hate you... Things just might seem be happening to just you but aint like that..everybody goes trough shittt that is just life..God has nothing to do with all the crapp you are going trough.... just try and be positive and good things will happend.. good luck.
2006-10-20 22:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't hate you. You're just going through what everyone goes through in life, but your attitude determines what you make of it. Stay the course, keep your faith and things will start looking better soon enough.
2006-10-20 22:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tiberius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't hate you! Just because nothing has ever seem to have worked for you, it doesn't mean God doesn't care. I really hope you get to know him more personally and that your life can get better, Just be assured he does love you!
2006-10-20 22:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not true. g-d hates no one. don't take it out on him or anyone else. maybe u should stop letting every little thing bother u and ask ur self what makes things go wrong? and change but dont let the good guy go away.
2006-10-20 22:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋