ok well me and this girl used to be like really good friends. but lately she has been kinda ignoring me. isntead of hanging out like 4 days of the week she says she is always busy and were lucky if we hang out 1 time a few months. and im getting the feeling she's kinda ditching me. like she promised she'd visit me when i got my wisdom teeth pulled. she never did n said she forgot even tho we talked the day before that. she promised to come to my b-day again she claims she forgot and blaimed it on her mom. then she promised we'd go to the movies. and yet again she ditched me. and tonight were supposed to go to a haunted house together... she has been avoiding me all day it seems like. (IM's, myspace comments, and her mother said she isnt home) and we planned to leave in about 30 minutes. if she ditches me again should i just stop trying to be friends with her?
2006-10-20 15:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we arent dating or anything. some of the answers sound like ur saying we are dating. lol
2006-10-20 15:19:45 · update #1
lucyanddesi u r a ******. if u read my profile it says im 18. 18 year olds cant b cop. it says im taking a class to help me become 1. so quit bein a lil ****** ur being reported
2006-10-20 15:25:04 · update #2
no she doesnt have a bf. her bf dumped her because he felt bad for cheating on her.
2006-10-20 15:42:31 · update #3
yes stop tyring to be her friend she is obviously ignoring you and you keep giving her more and more chances but she is obviously ot taking advantage of them you can find better friends... she'll realize what she lost later on...
2006-10-20 15:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they say in Texas, it's time to wake up and smell the coffe. You are being ditched, my friend. She's trying to do it nicely, without a big confrontation or teary scene, but it's obvious that for her, at least, the friendship is over.
Your best move is just to accept it, and look for another gal.
2006-10-20 22:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Sit her down and tell her that you feel like you haven't been spending time with her at all lately. Tell her that you value your friendship with her, and that you want to make more of an effort to spend time with her. If she gets mad at you, or if she agrees and then continues to ditch you, then you should stop the efforts and try to find some new friends. :-)
2006-10-20 22:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Stitch_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't stop trying to be friends but it does sound like she is trying to get some space. If you can try to talk to her and ask her what she needs. If she does not respond or want to talk just give her some time, let her know you enjoy hanging out and miss that but let her come to you.
2006-10-20 22:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by cottarial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES STOP BEING HER FRIEND.....WHY, FOR THE REASON THAT SHE IS NOT BEING THERE FOR YOU, AND ALSO WHY MAKING A PROMISE IF SHE IS GOING TO BREAK IT......SO YOU TELL HER WHATS GOING HERE I WANT TO KNOW WHY YOU ARE DITCHING ME? AND IF SHE SAYS SOMETHING STUPID THAN YOU KNOW WHAT LOOK FOR SOME OTHER FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST AND ****......YOUR........FRIEND.....!!!SHE AIN'T WORTH IT AT ALL.......THERE IS A LOT OF GIRLS THAT WOULD LIKE TO BE YOUR FRIEND.........K. OR MAYBE SHE HAS A BF AND HER B/F IS TELLING HER TO STOP TALKING TO YOU....TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT.....
2006-10-20 22:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Love Land 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...honestly if you think shes ditching you shes not really your "friend"...so you might consider getting a new "friend" because "friends" dont ditch "friends"
2006-10-20 22:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a friend, sounds like she's moved on to better things man. My advise to you is that you do the same hon! Find better friends that treat you better as you diserve:)
2006-10-20 22:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by aluminum22rocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes trying to isolate herself from you. Shes not interested in being friends and shes trying to just drift away
2006-10-20 22:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very clear my dear fellow this lady does not want a thing with you...life goes on and desert her.
Move on.
2006-10-20 22:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by cracio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should see what the situation is. But dont give up the friend ship. di d u do anything to her that she could be mad about.
2006-10-20 22:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lola the Snake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋