when my best friend is mad at me, i'm the last person to find out. she'll tell everyone in school except me. she's always talking about me behind my back and it hurts me. i talked about her once after i found out what she says about me, and she got mad at me and wouldnt talk to me for almost a week. that doesnt even compare to what she does! i've stopped, but i dont think she has. she thinks she can do whatever she wants, but when i start doing it, it's not fair?! and if we fight, she'll talk to me a few days later like we're friends again, but we never talk about the problem. she still fights with me over stuff from four years ago (i'm not kidding!). i can never understand her! i cant just tell her this because i don't wanna fight with her anymore.
2006-10-20 15:13:48 · 8 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's your best friend, I hate to think what your enemies are like........... Get involved in more activities, and make more friends. You can have more than one best friend. Then she will respect you more, if you have other friends to turn to. GL
2006-10-20 15:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This person is NOT your friend. You need to talk to a counselor to find out why you want to be around someone you treats you so badly. She's only your friend because she can bully you into doing what she wants. Friendship is a loving relationship where people care about each other not a relationship where one or the other person gets hurt. Find a new friend and tell this individual that you'll see her again when she grows up.
2006-10-20 15:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a person and be actual to your self, do what you wish to do! You have no idea for certain your friends might take the piss, and in the event that they do however see that you do not care, they're going to no longer hassle. I'm definite in the event that they bought to understand her they would discover her a beautiful character as a pal and might stop to be shallow. I suppose you additionally must compare whether or not that is your OWN unconscious angle that you are projecting onto your peers. Are YOU somewhat ashamed that your knowledge female friend is obese? Because if the notion didnt even pass your brain, its not going you might have regarded that it might pass your peers' minds. For illustration, do you worry that your peers would suppose of her as a crook? Probably no longer, considering that the suggestion hasn't entered your possess brain. So in the event you receive that humans are available in all sizes and styles and that there is not any such factor as perfection, I suppose you can discover that your peers would not have a drawback together with her both.
2016-09-01 00:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend. Sorry, but if she's "always talking about me behind my back," and that is NOT a friend, much less a best friend. Just ignore her when she tries to be friends again. You'll piss her off probably, but oh well. She doesn't treat you well enough to deserve to be your friend. Find a new best friend.
2006-10-20 15:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should just ignore her...because if she really wants to be friends with you then she wouldnt ignore you...&also if you guys fight all the time...just dont fight just ignore her and find other friends..life is wayy to short to be always thinking about somthing stupid or a stupid fight...and when shes mad at you just say im sick of and hang with other friends
2006-10-20 15:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by sleighbells 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she doesn't seem like such a good friend....but if you really want to keep her as a friend you NEED to talk about it with her. and if that still doesn't work then she is definitely not a very good friend and she doesn't deserve you!
p.s. gossip never does anybody good.
p.s.s i know i'm sounding like some dumb teacher or something, but it is what you really need to do.
2006-10-20 15:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ronni A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave her, and go find some real caring friends that you deserve.
2006-10-20 15:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so elementary school....
2006-10-21 11:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋