i want to be the best mother and wife possible what do you think are good qualities and aspects and activities to shoot for? what are you life?
2006-10-20 15:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are a million ways to be the best spouse and parent.
I'm a SAHM. I love cooking. I joined Flylady.net so the house is a home....
I make sure husband and I have date nights....
I'm an artist and have tons of interests and my own life to keep it dynamic...
I do volunteer work for Habitat for Humanity... when I'm away, DH sees what I do all day, and the kids think mommy's a hero and want to do it too...
I spend a lot of time with each kid doing fun stuff...
I volunteer at their school...
I drag them to church... (and temple!) LOL
We have lots of animals...
I strive to keep a happy balance...
THey are involved in all their activities...
I help with their schoolwork...
So that's me!!
The real question is... who/what do YOU want to be? :)
Get creative! You can't go wrong!
2006-10-20 15:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you need to ask your self if you the jeolous type, if you fly off the handle with critizim, if you can see a woman coming on to your man and laugh it off because your husband didn't take the bait! Things like that you need to share with your partner. Anger is not the answer in any relation be it MOM DAD MOther BRother any realtion ship To be the best you must have a good sense. Think before you act on anything rash. Check out the court shows check out the people how they are acting . Do you wanna be like that ? Those shows help me alot just an example is all i am saying. But most of all the anger is not a part of a family even if they have done something bad like ditching school, stealing, You make sure you talk to your children yelling is not the way to go. If your partner is gona cheat getting mad at the other woman makes you look like the loser. Never confront the person . Know your rights in your marriage do it with class. But not to say he is gona just incase and the way to make that never happpen is to be sensible think before you act and always talk to each other. Dont argue. Be good to each other
2006-10-20 15:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Liteyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think by the love I give my family.
I work regular hours per week, and I have 3 sons, and my husband is a field engineer, so he's gone periodically through the week. I make my children feel special by volunteering at their school, making baked goods for their class, and taking them to the park almost everyday after work. I show my husband love by the immense amount of respect I exhibit in front of him and others. I also take much of the financial burden off of him because I work, and he greatly appreciates that too. I feel good about myself and my work.
Be careful, sometimes people will envy you, and choose to tear you down for your accomplishments and aspirations. Remember these are people who actually ADMIRE you.
2006-10-20 15:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that you show love, and that you care. don't make ur husband want to cheat on you because you can't give him pleasure. the worst thing is when a child has divorced parents, especially if the kid doesn't get to see both parents. i know, im 14 and my parents divorced when i was pretty young, i don't get to see my father. its horrible, not being able to see both parents.
oh yeah, one way to win a mans heart is by feeding him good food.
2006-10-20 15:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joe R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality time spent attentive to they thoughts listening and talking to them as a freind making sure I take take time out to fullfill their needs letting them know some things are not acceptible encouragment.
2006-10-20 15:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋