well this is my problem. my friends lysa and gina all of a sudden changed this school year. last year they weren't even friends but this year they act like they're sisters. they are forgetting about me and our other friend sarah. they only talk about them or what happend to them. ever since last summer they have changed personallities. lysa acts like a spoiled brat and gina went from sporty to girlie. i'm afraid i'm loseing them as a friend. what should i do?!!
2006-10-20 14:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by irishgirl582 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk it out with them--no one can read your mind, and maybe these girls are so excited about being new friends that they've just forgotten to ask you how you're feeling. Sit Lysa and Gina down and just tell them that you feel like you're growing apart, and that you value your friendship with them and want to make more of an effort to spend time together. Make sure you phrase it right--you don't want to sound accusatory, that'll just make them angry. If they're true friends, they'll want to make an effort to get back with you, too.
2006-10-20 15:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Stitch_fanatic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one summer can make such a huge difference! They say that in life you will only garner about 3 true, long lasting friendships.. give or take a few. People grow apart, start having different interests and find "new" best friends. Try not to take it to heart. Your personality has probably changed too, yours for the better because you still care about your friends. Let go of the "old" friends and open yourself up to the new friends that you are going to meet. That's life's journey.
2006-10-20 22:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by moejaymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, at least they're getting along now. try to do stuff with them. but if lysa's a brat, then why should you put up with her and her attitude? tell them that you're glad they're hanging out, but they're forgetting about you.
2006-10-20 22:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kel Kel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find new friends.
you can never have too many friends, and you can never stop it when two of your friends start hanging out together without you. It happens all the time.
2006-10-20 22:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well talk 2 them about it and ask if they dont like u anymore...or u can move on because it sounds like they mighta..im srry 2 say. :(
its happeend 2 me 2. just outta no where.
2006-10-20 22:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by jEsSiCa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋