my wife wants to have a threesome with another woman and i do to. we have tried before but she got mad. how does she become more comfortable with her sexuality and guillermo?
2006-10-20 14:56:46 · 20 answers · asked by bbiggs5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With threesomes you need rules, especially if you are married. If you've never had you significant other walk out during one then you have never had a real fight! Simply put, yes she wants to share you with someone else but on her terms. Find out what they are before you begin.
2006-10-20 14:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
These things are soooooooooo complicated. Just one person is complex, two even more so. Three, very complex, even its just for an hour. Also diseases. Humans are designed mostly for pairing up. Its gonna be complicated at best. Two people rarely make it work for long. I think a threesome might not last evn one night if done wrong. It might be worth it though. With careful prep I would try it though. I would want some serious trust with anyone involved first. Otherwise no. Its SO DAMn exciting though. Especially with women , the more the better I think.
If somebody is not comfortable with her sexuality, maybe get that first, then two then three then four I think.
2006-10-20 22:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would u feel if she invite another dude into ur bedroom for threesome and this dude gonna pound a living crap out of ur wife and hearing her screaming and moaning and watching u in tear. Then after he's done, he gonna pound from ur behind as well. How do like dat, huh? Of course, u don't, then don't force her to do something dat she doesn't wan to. Be a good husband to her.
2006-10-20 22:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-10-23 03:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be there, just don't involved in doing anything with the other woman until your wife is secure with the situation, i've never done anything like that, but i'm sure I'd get pissed at my man kissing and doing another woman
2006-10-20 21:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by mysticalfairygoddess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a REALLY bad idea in a marriage and remember, you can't turn back the clock. I advise you to think long and hard about the consequences of this demon.
2006-10-20 22:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her lead. That way it is all at her pace and it all goes the way she would like. Offer help and do what she says. That should make her comfortable.
2006-10-22 06:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by penguinatron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having dun one and had it turn out bad. here goes let your wife be in control from start to finish let her tell you what to do. never compliment the other women's body. also don't act to excited oh and do you wife first.. yea I was stupid LOL. most important DO NOT DRINK ALCOHOL. ps we do plan on trying it again but we learned from are mistakes.
2006-10-21 01:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Robert H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will never happen, unless you have a threesome with another guy. Tell her if she really wants it she'll need to relax.
2006-10-20 21:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably only trying to please you. Rest assured if you fought about it once, it will probably happen again. You never tell your wife that YOU are interested too. Usually they say things like that to see what your response is. Its going to backfire hard core. Stay away and DONT act interested. Im tellin you. its just not gonna work.
2006-10-20 21:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋