what do you call a so called relationship where you only meet the other person to have sex with. Never go out anywhere but meet and have sex. Am I being used?
2006-10-20 14:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well yes he did say he doesn't want a girlfriend.
2006-10-20 15:03:12 · update #1
Ok well it's been one year already. And I can't stop...
2006-10-20 15:04:18 · update #2
Well, I would call it an affair. As far as being used that depends on you, if you enjoy the sex and aren't looking for anything more and he is making no promises then I would say that you are in a mutually satisfying affair. Yep you have a lover, not a boyfriend. Just remember that it's okay to have a lover, not every interaction needs to be going somewhere, all you have to do is know when to call it quits.
2006-10-20 14:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Christina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is by mutual consent, then that is not being used. that is two adults just agreeing to a sex only meeting..
some people call it f**k buddies. but as i gather from your question, you are not even friends, and maybe you want more than just sex..
in which case, you haven't agreed to just sex, but sex + a kind of relationship( implicit). if this person knows about this want, and still gives you only sex, then yes, i'm afraid you are being used.
2006-10-20 22:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by naa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds nice..........................................................but lets get back to earth, it takes more than sex to hold a relationship, and no ur not being used because its consentual and i think if any using happened, it would be mutual....it takes more than that 2 get a relationship, and i think it had reached the point where u begun to probably like the guy, which leads u to evaluate the situation and then to wanting to have a relationship,....if u want 1, u should talk about it and try it out, if it doesnt work out,....it was partially ur fault as u allowed it to happen.
2006-10-20 22:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by slims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bed pet"! If you are looking for more then sex,and have said so then yes you are being used....If he / she told you that's all he wanted from you then and you thought you could change there mind....you are naive and should go back to holding hands and talking.
2006-10-20 21:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Liz H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea hes usin use. thats not a relationship, at least not to him. to him your jus a friend with benefits. sorry but your jus the person he goes to when hes hornym you mean to him. you need to stop with him. dont let him use ya like that. i would never do tha to a girl. that **** aint right
2006-10-20 21:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've expected more than sex out of him, and you've told him that, then yes, you're being used.
2006-10-20 21:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea .. u r being used indeed ! So many other similar answers here, can't be too wrong uh? But if you are enjoying it, then what should we say?
2006-10-20 22:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU ARE BEING USED CAUSE ANY MAN OR BOY THAT ONLY WANT YOU FOR SEX ISN'T A MAN. AND THEY HAVE NO PRIOTIES OR MORALS TO SHOW A WOMAN RESPECT THEY ONLY WANT WHAT THEY THINK THEY CAN GET.
2006-10-20 21:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by mahrjasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he only wants one thing you need to let him go.
2006-10-20 21:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by SexyT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are used. How I can help you?
2006-10-20 21:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋