i don't get it, i get hit on by pervs,evrytime i answer or ask a q, are u all men really like that?
2006-10-20 14:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We might start that way, but that's just scratching the surface, someone on another message board put it like this, since all guys have one thing on their mind, namely sex and think about it at least once a day and more like once an hour then as a girl only flirt with pervs, sex addicts, guys whatever you want to call us, whom you feel like you'd have sex with, then you'd be eliminating a bunch of the pervs right there, sex is nothing, it's not even a big deal, in fact most guys are all hype they don't even know how to please a woman, you're better off starting the race, jumping in there and learning about guys you're attracted to than just standing on the side lines over the sex issue, it's rediculous and the older you get the more you'll feel comfortable about the male traits and gifts that males bring into a relationship, after all someone has to pursue right? That's what males do and they do it to get sex. It's simple. Guys offer a lot more than that though, at least the good ones! ;) The only way to find out is to let them be close. Sounds like you've been talking to some pretty immature guys though too. Try pursuing guys yourself. I find the type of girl I want and I have to look especially hard, I learned about myself first and that helped me know which other girls to filter out. The older you get the wiser you are about this. However, the older you get the more you realize it's not about all the stuff you thought was important when you're young. It's not about being perfect. It's about being well for me having fun, I have learned not to expect love since I can't guarantee that anyone will love me tomorrow. All I can do is live every moment and try to make each moment I spend with my lover beautiful so that when I remember my time with a person I chose to be intimate with I remember the beauty of our time together and the quality and the value of our interest in each other. If you're putting out those kinds of vibes you're going to get the good men you seek. Good luck!
2006-10-20 22:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hindi, there is actually a lot of good men out their (including me.) There is more of us good men than those sick guys. So no, not all men are really like that.
hope this helps
2006-10-20 21:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by searching_for_sneaks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them.. some have a good side to them... A romantic side.. A trusting side... There are a few out there.. find them before they all gone
2006-10-20 21:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try to always be a nice guy and i was thinking the samething but about women
2006-10-20 21:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea - don't you just love us? By the way sweetie, wanna cyber?
2006-10-20 22:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just havent looked hard enough!
2006-10-20 21:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by sparky_butt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them are...it's really hard to find nice guys....those type of guys are IMMATURE!!!
2006-10-20 21:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by XoFashionista90Xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont judge us all badly. just coz of a few *** holes
2006-10-20 21:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right here.
2006-10-20 21:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ... on YA, so far, I've been luckier I guess
2006-10-20 21:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋